I need some advice on my relationship!?

My boyfriend and i started goin out 5 months ago. It started off as a long distance relationship but now we both live in the same city and since moving back 1 month ago (I moved back to be with him), he has broken up with me twice.Before I moved back he broke-up with me 3 times and we got back together, but I felt the reason he broke-up with me those 3 times were because of his insecurities with me being so far away (16 hours). Everytime he breaks up with me, he says its because he's not ready to settle down and because he has trust issues from past relationships, but 2 or 3 days after the break-up he's telling me he wants me back. I love him with all my heart and I just don't understand his reasons for breaking up with me and then wanting me back. Right now we are not together and I feel it in my heart that sooner or later he is going to ask me back out. What do you think I should do this time?I need some advice on my relationship!?
To me it sounds like he is breaking up with you just so he can go be with other girls and not be ';cheating.'; But if it really is just his insecurities then I would say that you need to talk to him and tell him that he needs to make up his mind because you don't want to keep wasting your time on a guy unwilling to commit. I hope this helps.I need some advice on my relationship!?
i know it's hard, but you need to try and move on. easier said than done i know, but he doesn't know what he wants, but he does know u r there to come running every time he decides he wants u back. don't give him that satisfaction any more, say no. you will find someone better. give yourself time
Oh you need to sit down and talk to this fella. Let him know how you feel, that you love him, and what its doing to you when you guys break up all the time. Eventually you will come to the point where no matter how much you love him, you'll have to walk away because you cant keep doing that to yourself. Make sure you tell him that.





If he's not ready to settle down, then he shouldnt be with anyone in the first place. If you ask me, thats such a cowardly answer though. So get to the bottom of it, if hes not ready to settle down, go find someone who loves you and is willing and wanting to settle with you. You deserve that much girl





And also, the whole trust thing....its not fair for him to make YOU pay for things that happened in the past. YOU didnt mess up or screw him over, so how about a little love and trust your way? RIGHT?! If a person wants to get anywhere, they have to forget aabout mistakes in the past and try for the future. He could end up losing you if he doesnt get his act together and quick.





Just make sure you let him know everything before you get back together. And I hope it all works out for you!!!
i dont know him so its hard to tell exactly his reasons for doing this, but it sounds to me like he is confused and he is having a hard time sorting out his emotions and knowing for himself what he really wants, i have this problem too....one day i will want one thing and the next something will just go off in my head and i suddenly realize that its not what i want at all, its a very confusing process...i have no idea if this is what your boyfriend is like too but i hope i helped.........peace
hun it seems to me he doesnt know what he wants. first he wants you then doesnt it's sounds like it was easier for him to be in a long distance than an a actually close relationship. iv'e been there and it;s not worth all the strong along and him changing his mind 24/7 i seriously would just tell him that you both just need a break away from you relationship and then see where you stand.