I need some advice on my relationship...i don't know what to do?!?!?

my parents are separated..they live in two different cities that are 6 miles apart. my girlfriend lives in the same city as my father...my father lives with my godparents but my girlfriend thinks that he lives in his own home...I told her that because i was really embarrased about what was going on with my parents..the separation and all...we've been going out for 2 months (Im 17 and she's 18)...and my parents have been separated for like 4 months...





how should i tell my girlfriend the truth about my dads situation?? What should I say....how should I say it???





(if ur a girl answering this)....would u be mad at me for not telling u the truth at the start??I need some advice on my relationship...i don't know what to do?!?!?
When she brings up the subject just tell her. Make sure you say afterwards that you lied because you were embarrased about it. I'm sure she'll understand. If I had a boyfriend that had this situation and confided in me with the truth I wouldn't be mad. Its not like you were lying about being with another girl. If its a family issue, its different.


*Good luckI need some advice on my relationship...i don't know what to do?!?!?
if your girl is understanding then it shouldnt be that difficult to tell her the truth. why should it make a difference who your dad's roommates happen to be?? at least he has a place to live. that's the thing you have to be grateful for. and there is nothing to be embarrased about regarding the seperation. people change and grow and sometimes those who at some point were compatible decide to go down seperate paths, its human nature.
This is pretty easy as you answered your own question. Sit her down and tell her that you just want her to listen to you for a moment. Then explain what you just wrote. Look her in the eyes directly. Tell her that you were really embarrassed about what has been going with your parents and because of that you didn't tell her the truth. Tell her that since she means so much to you, you couldn't continue with this and that you will never lie to her again. Do NOT sugar-coat that you lied. Apologise for this and ASK her for her understanding and forgiveness. Then listen to her and be quiet until she is done. Then go from there. Good luck...
1st thing...the truth will always set you free...If a relationship can't survive truth, it didn't have a chance to start with. It is not your fault about your parents, and therefore, you have nothing to be ';ashamed'; of. So, tell your girlfriend the truth and apologize for not ';knowing what to say'; If she cares for you, everything should work out.
No I would not be mad.When someone tells the truth and explains as to why like as in embarassed then why would anyone get mad about that.But don't let it go for too long. Tell her and do it in a respectful way like as though its all about her and shes everything you ever wanted....good luck
Bury her with lies! I have been married for 20 yars and my wife thinks I have a regular job. She's wrong. She thinks I stay out late because of work meetings. She's wrong. She thinks I would never sleep with a hooker. She's wrong. She thinks I would never deal drugs. Well, you get the point.
I think that I would be upset at you for not telling me the truth in the first place. Your going through a tuff time right now it is understandable. Just tell her that you felt embarrassed that your dad is not living on his own and that he can't support himself right now because of the divorce.
Just tell her the truth and let her know you were embarrassed to tell her up front. She shouldnt be upset about your pride.
its a totally understandable thing you've done. if you want to come clean then just do it, let her know that's there's a family situation going on that you were embarrassed about and lied to cover it up, once she finds out what it is she shouldn't be too upset, even though you did lie to her, just be honest man.its not that bad
noooo its normal to keep your own secrets your are not obliged to reveal you secrets in my opinion if i were this girl i would understund your situation cuz it s hard for ya to bear this one!go and tell her the truth cuz if keep it more than this time(2month)you will be liar and she will not forgive you.plz dont be embarrased .


any way wish ya good luck


you are not responsable for somthing you didn t do it has nothing to do with your personal life.why should you be punished for ?tell her the truth live your life