I Have A Relationship Problem. Need some advice?

I've been debating for awhile and its been bothering me for a while. I'll try to make this as short as I can. I meet this girl (2yrs) at my job working seasonal. Ok we was cool for awhile we was just friends kickin it. At the time she stayed only five blocks away and she would come over to play the 360 and watch movies. She had a boyfriend and I had just got out of a boring relationship- i respected her for not making it more then it seemed, but after awhile it was inevitable. We kissed and after awhile she stopped coming over. I developed a strong feeling for her but it eventually went away that summer.Begining of the year 2008 I run into her again coincidently through a networking website. We chat catching up on things and the conversation got serious and I send a ticket to her in a different state to come back up here, and she came. It becomes instant attraction at sight. We go out for about six months and then we brake up. Reason, I was acting immature I went out to the clubs alot and treated her bad. So she ends up going back with her ex. This doesn't really bother me. She comes to my job with her dude and it came to the point I tried to avoid her until she stoped poppin up. I start to date woman during the time frame till the now (09). I come to find out she had moved back to the city she came from, why? I dont know. But after awhile I start to have dreams that, in some way, apply to her. Maybe its something im missing in all my relationships, excitement. So I try to win her back but all my methods fail. Now its the end of 09, we still chat from time to time but she never replies to my frantic sweet gestures. Im dealing with a small case of infatuation, but i recognize that I can always settle for better. Recently I came across a opportunity to move to florida to play ball instead of this city of MN believe the only way to forget about this person is to leave this city of memories like what she did on my behalf and her exes who treated her horrible. I guess in a way its just karma at its best. I dont know what to do, my heart is telling me to stay and common sense is to make a run for it and blow dodge.I Have A Relationship Problem. Need some advice?
Moving would allow you a clean slate which in your case, may be just what you need. On the other hand I'd give you the same advice I would give a woman with relationship problems that center around multiple partners, not being able to get over one, and all that. Don't date for a while. While you are not dating, raise your standards some and learn some self respect.


When you respect yourself and have some self-esteem you will see that you will treat others better, and you won't allow others to treat you badly. You won't stay in a bad relationship, weather it's bad because of you or the other person.





_I Have A Relationship Problem. Need some advice?
when you treat someone badly, of course you are gonna blow it for chances with you in the future. I'd move, but I like to travel anyway.