Advice on my relationship PLEASE!!?

I have been seeing this guy for 2 years. We dated for a year and then he broke up with me. However, we've been seeing each other without anyone knowing still. He doesn't want anyone to know about us and I don't either really because of the drama it would cause but I feel like he only see's me for @$$. He talks to me everyday but he only comes and see's me 1-2 times a week and everytime he gets what he wants and leaves. (Very rarley does he stay all night). I am still in love with him and he knows it. Sometimes I feel he is just using me though and I'm afraid to say anything because last time I did he didn't see me for almost 2 weeks. When we are in the same place he dances with other girls in front of me and last time he kissed his ex (that is said he was over), which really upset me and then showed up at my house later that night. He said that it was innocent and they were just friends. He ';promised'; and hasn't don't it again. I don't want to lose him but sometimes I feel really used.Advice on my relationship PLEASE!!?
You are being used. This guy obviously only wants sex.





If you can see that for yourself, why are you still with him? You've got to have incredibly low self-esteem if you don't realize that you can do a lot better than how this creep is treating you.....





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If there's a baby involved, you really need to get this guy out of your bed. For one thing, what if he fathers another one on you? For another, your son will grow up thinking it's perfectly normal to use women for sex. For a third thing, don't you want the baby to have a dad that's there for him? Right now, your ex only plays with him because he happens to be there where your ex goes to get laid....Advice on my relationship PLEASE!!?
Challenge him! Give it back x's 10!
It sounds like he is using you. He knows that you still love him so he knows that you will still give him what he wants. You are a booty-call. I understand how you feel though. My ex and I were in the same situation. We were hiding the fact that we were seeing eachother because of the drama as well. It came down to it that I couldn't handle just being a booty-call anymore. The only way I could keep myself from this man was to hang out with friends and make sure I was ALWAYS busy. I told him we were over and he was very upset. Saying how much he cared about me, blah blah- it was all for a piece of a$$. It's been 7 years now and I still know that I can't be in the same room with him because of the ';power'; he has over me- AND I'm married to someone else! Good luck dear!
He's using you. Sorry. Stop putting out and move on.
You're way to dependent and needy, and you're at an extreme disadvantage You need to snap out of it, as this is not healthy at all.





If you feel he is using you, he probably is. Tell him to take a hike and get rid of him. Get out your psychotic, needy condition.
I really hate to say this, but I think he is using you! If you both want to keep your relationship ';hush, hush'; then that is between the two of you. But if he is acting like the main thing he is interested in is sex, and he gets irritated when you bring any feelings into the relationship, then I think he is definitely using you!!!!!!!
He has shown you what he has to offer in this relationship. If all you want is to get laid a couple times a week, then he is your man. If you want more, you are going to have to get it from someone else. Other than sending you a certified letter, I don't know if he could be any clearer.
You already lost him cause he's a ex.Now he's using you like a ten dollar whore you know it and won't stop it.When you wake up and see this for yourself you'll do the right thing.Until then look to be used.You can put an end to this anytime you want,are you ready?
He is sooo in love with you. That is exactly what he should be doing! Don't you see that you are a sucker and prob didnt pick up on my sarcasm? You are being used for sex..but hey, at least you are getting some.
He is using you cant you see!!I think you should have a little more pride and kick him to the curve you need a real man who wants to treat you with love and respect like you deserve
Sounds to me like he wants his cake and eat it to. To hell with Drama and all of that if you two really loved each other the way you say you do you would want the world to know that you belong to each other....I think he still wants to be your friend but he's not willing to go back to the whole committed to just you thing....either sit down and tell him that he needs to be with only you and give you the quality time that you deserve or go and find you someone that will treat you the way a woman should be treated....or maybe just take a minute and be by yourself...you will be surprised at how much you learn about yourself when you aren't worried about the relationship
You should'nt be like that girl.. you give yourself a little pride and respect or a little reservation don't let others use you because i'ts your life, you should value it, ';LOVE'; is not about being noble or anything, love is doing the right thing, even if it would meant to hurt someone's else feelings or your own.. Love does not delight w/ evil but rejoices w/ the truth, it always protects, always hopes, always trust, always perseveres, love never fails.. ^_^ WORLD PEACE!


anyways, it's your life.. you should know more better about it.. peace!