Five year relationship;phone silence.Mature individuals.Advice needed!!!?

Hello to all. Me and my significant other of five years have a beautiful relationship. We talk on the phone everyday for hours and hours(4-5). Every now and then, the phone gets silent. And this actually turned into an argument recently,like me saying,';I'm always starting conversations so you talk. And he would say the same thing to me. We both feel the same way.So what advice do you have. The phone silence just started.Cause it never use to be like this.Any help is appreciated.Five year relationship;phone silence.Mature individuals.Advice needed!!!?
I think it's unreasonable to expect to talk for 4-5 hours a day, every day, for 5 years. I think the two of you should both be kind enough that, when there's a silence, maybe it's a cue telling you that maybe you've run out of things to say, and that it would be OK to hang up. You are turning what used to be a natural and desirable thing into a chore by trying to make the length stay the same. Go back to being natural with each other, and the arguments will cease.Five year relationship;phone silence.Mature individuals.Advice needed!!!?
Just understand you do talk to each other ALOT and talking less wouldn't be saying your relationship isn't beautiful.


Dont feel like you have to talk endlessly even when you have nothing left to say.


Im gathering here the relationship is long distance or someone is in jail or the military?


Couples dont generally even see each other that much in a weekday and speaking for my own marriage, sometimes we just sit next to each other, hold hands and enjoy being in the same vicinity.
That's so long for anyone to be talking on the phone. Sometimes you just run out of things to say. Maybe start putting a limit on the amount of time you talk, or call a few times quickly throughout the day to say hi. See if things get better then. The phone going silent doesnt' mean you don't care about each other. All conversations have lulls eventually.
When you talk that much you run out of things to say! Start talking for two hours a day and see how that works for you. Sometimes when my husband is deployed I like to be on the phone whether we are talking or not because it makes me feel like he is there since I can hear him breath.
Silence is golden. Both of you need to recognise that not every moment has to be filled with blather. If you can't sit quietly together, you've got no hope in the long run.
Maybe yall shouldn't talk so long. Have a chance to miss each other to actually have something to talk about.
maybe you shouldn't talk on the phone for 4-5 hours everyday ... that seems a bit much and is probably the reason for the silence.
I am thinking it's time to get off the phone and meet in person.
Txt msg instead.
';you talk';





';NO! You talk!';





';Nooooo, YOU talk!';





';NO! YOU TALK';....And you want MATURE answers for this?!
You are talking 4-5 hours a night. What else needs to be said?