Okay my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2years or so now. We live together and stuff but that was only because this big problem that happened along time ago which forced us to get more serious faster then it should have been. But ever since I moved in with him he totally took over my life. He deleted my myspace so I lost touch with all my friends because I didn't have my phone anymore. Also I tried my hardest to keep in touch with my two bestfriends (they're guys) but they really are just friends too me. But he really insulted them which pissed them off then I never talked to them since that. But it really pissed me the hell off but I couldn't really do anything because I live him. I finally got in touch with one of them and I'm trying to hide it from my boyfriend as much as I can. But I'm really getting fed up with how controlling he's being. He should give me some room to be myself and have my friends because he has his. To me he's totally destroying my life and I dont know what to do untill I graduate.Advice on my relationship! PLEASE!?
This man is using classic tactics to isolate you and ruin your self-esteem, so that you are completely reliant on him. These are things that men who hit women start off with. He may or may not have become violent with you, but he is at the very least controlling you. This is not love - it's abuse!
You need to get out while you have enough self-esteem left. You don't say whether you have any family, etc nearby - but at least you have the one friend that you're still in touch with. Maybe he can help you on a temporary basis. You don't say where you live, but I would suggest contacting your local council or its equivalent and ask for help.
Your situation will only get worse if you stay. You can get through this, even if it's tough. There are millions of strong, amazing women out there who've been through what you're going through (I'm one of em!) and you can get away and have a better life.
I wish you every bit of love and good luck x xAdvice on my relationship! PLEASE!?
Sit him down somewhere you can talk to him alone but make sure you are safe. dump him. let him down easy and state your reasons. if he begs give him one and one only chance to prove himself to you. afterall you deserve to live your own seperate life does he have any girl friends that he keeps in contact with? pull that card on him. its for the best......
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