Advice on teenage relationship, JUST PLZ HELP!?

ok well im 13 years old n at about november 28th a askd out this 1 girl n she siad yes, well were still going out but through out the relationship ive ben a crappy boyfriend but ive bcome smrter n have a bcame a better boyfriend thn the strt, well aslo through out the relationship thingy theres ben rumers flying around things tht make u wanna move 2 the middle of no where cuz there so stressful,but anyways summer vacation came n i was bummed cuz i knew i wasnt gonna c her tht often but i didnt really think much of it,well w/ common reasoning n actul facts ive determined tht she cnt completly trust me, but trust this other guy a lot more thn me( comon reasonin part) n well i know tht shes ben tlking 2 him a lot n we havnt really ben tlking 2 much since we got outa school n i know they hav ben hanging out a lot since thn n well we havnt,n i know tht there was a rumber going on tht she likd this guy around febuary, so im wondering, shud i b conserded she cheating on me or like things?Advice on teenage relationship, JUST PLZ HELP!?
okay, so i had the same situation with my gf. she kept hanging out with a girl and eventually things just got to one thing or another and she dumped me for a chick.





not exactly the same situation but sort of.


now, i'm not saying dump her or anything, just be cautious.


you know ask her out to the movies or over to your house to watch a funny movie and eat popcorn, you know simple cute stuff like that.





but if she says no, don't go off the handle and ask her why.


just be like okay, well.. i'll catch ya some other time.


try to ask her several places you know?


talk to her more, give her presents little things like that.


if she seems to feel awkward taking the presents or she says NO every single time you ask her something, then start asking questions.


ask her why she's been avoiding you and such.





now if she says yes and yet you hear from another source that she's dating this other guy your talking about.


then confront her (ask her) about it and ask her if its true.


if she says no, then whatever.


but if another person tells you, ';yeah she's dating that guy'; then dump her.Advice on teenage relationship, JUST PLZ HELP!?
you should talk to her and txt her alot more often on the phone. take her to the movies and bring her a prestent. later talk to her about that other guy. but the rumors can just be DRAMA again. and take a chill pill. most guys feel like they want to be in the middle of no where at times. its a natural feeling. good luck
Kasey, if you want to live a grown up life, then act like it. Communication. Every relationship that is going to work needs it. Talk to her and ask her. Tell her how you feel. If it works out, then it'll be stronger for you talking about it, if it doesn't then, you'll have learned something and there are plenty of girls out there!
First piece of advice: Please learn to write properly!


Call up your girlfriend, tell her you miss her. Say that you should hangout soon. If she hesitates AT ALL, you should be concerned.
You are still young. There will be plenty of other girlfriends. Don't spend time worrying about it. Just enjoy yourself and your friends.
If you are dating a girl I think you should be hanging out with her more than anyone else. Take the initiative and dont let her lose interest. Good luck! 鈾?br>




Kendall
First off learn to type, second off, your 13. Dont worry about it this much.
cheating on you?


let her know how you feel... talking to the person that your having problems with is the best solution
Kasey-I REALLY wanted to answer this but your typing is very hard to read...no offense.
if u trust her not to do that then maybe she isnt but just ask her and she will tell you
wht re yu tlkng abut?


no oe can undrsand yu whn yu tpe lke this!!





GAH! learn to type!
i dony kno what you said. but dont worry about it
my advice k.o him
try retyping so that i can understand it


then i'll answer what ever question u have
i wouldn't feel that she is cheating on you but i think you have good reason to believe that she might end her relationship with you in order to be with this guy. if things go on, who knows she may be cheating on you, but by the looks of it, what you two have is simply not the same, and things change, now that you two don't see each other at school, your relationship has changed. you can either try and make things work, talk to her more often and try to see her more, or you could confront her about this other guy and end it before she ends up cheating on you or you get extremely hurt. but talk to her before you make any major decisions because this guy could just be a friend and you don't want to throw everything away because you were assuming things.
hey kid, its all right! its too much for a recently turned teen to carry so much. One thing you should learn about relationships is that if you are worked up about something, TALK IT OUT with your PARTNER!


If she wants to beak up with you for the other dude ask her why, don't fight though!


If she REALLY wants to be with you, she won't hesitate in telling you so, but as soon as you see her hesitating to be with you...


well, a bad relationship usually doesn't go far!


Good Luck and remember! There are more fishes that are more golder than her!! YOU STILL HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE!!! I'm sure you'll find that someone!
You should never assume that someone is cheating on you. It might just be that she is great friends with this guy (it does happen!!) and they are talking about you and how she feels that you have been distant from her.





The only thing you can do now is talk to her! You might find that you have just been paranoid.. or you may find that she DOES like the other guy.. but either way.. you'll know for sure how she feels!





So be brave.. be honest with eachother.. and stress less.





What will be will be.. and you will be just fine no matter what :)
Well it sounds like she is not into you all that much. You need to ask yourself why is she mad/untrusted in you? And if it bad enough then maybe she is just looking for some one to talk to..I know that I have a boyfriend, and I have guy friends..Sometimes when I need a break from my boyfriend I can go to them talk stuff out and come to a senceable conclusion on why he did what he did, and what he was thinking by asking other guys. Because boys and gilrs think very differently than each other. Just give her space, call her, and you make sure to set up times to hang out....and see what happens...
strange. im 13 and my birthday is 11/28..hahahah


so anwayss..


the rumors flying around are just teenage years. they will eventually die down. she's not cheating on you, she just has best friends who are boys..my boyfriend thought i was cheating on him b/c i had a bff who was a boy..so we broke up after we were bffs for 7 years.... and we havent talked in 2 yrs..you think shes cheating because of the rumors and the stress. take a break. dont talk to friends or anybody BUT your girlfriend..dont do anything stressful..an you will feel better