Advice about ending a relationship.?

I'm male, in a monogamous relationship with a male for 15 years. 7 years ago he lost his sexual ability (permanently and physically). With the sex drive loss has come the loss of the romance %26amp; passion that comes with it. Our relationship consists of trust, companionship, and ';best friend'; love. These are great things, but as time has passed, it has become more difficult to deny having my own romantic needs met.





I have sought sexual stimulation on the internet to help me ';get by'; - it started with porn, but progressed to interacting on a webcam. Recently I met a single man whom I have a tremendous emotional and intellectual bond with. I could have a romantic relationship with him, he knows my situation, and both feel i must end my current relationship before beginning another. I'm nervous to give up what I have for something new that will have its own challenges - he's 5000 miles away... Should my new love prevail? Have I already been unfaithful? Am I being crazy? What should I do?Advice about ending a relationship.?
Dont trust a person that is 5000 miles away enough to end what you have. I am guessing that you met him online. People are way different online than they are in person, so be very careful!





I think that you need to be honest with your partner about your feelings. Who knows, maybe he will let you date other people..... If not, you need to do what is best for you in life.Advice about ending a relationship.?
Just end it. (I'm referring to the online stuff) Yes, you have been unfaithful. It's sad sad sad. You will never find true happiness this way.





For your own sake, it's time for some changes to your daily routine and lifestyle. You need to get out from behind that computer screen and participate in some new interests - sports, dinner clubs, meet friends.





Whatever happens, true friends are hard to find and going by what you have written, you have the ';real deal'; with your mate there.








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I always believe closing one chapter before you begin another...that said, if you are sure that what you have now is not what you want for long term then you are not risking anything, and besides sometimes even a new misery is better then the same old one.
You have already been unfaithful by going on the net with the webcam. If your that unhappy with him then you should breakup with him and I really feel that you should be honest to him on what you did with the internet. I really feel you were wrong by going behind your sweethearts back. That is not fair to him. I am sure he didn't plan to loose his sex drive. I sure wouldn't trust a man 5000 miles away. Been there done that!!! Love isn't about sex either. Yes it is part of it but not the main thing. Sorry just my opinion
I think you need to go back to a woman another man s plumming does not fit the scenario and you are only stuck under demonic bondage,and need deliverance from that homosexual spirit, Repent while you can and change your courde of life for homosexuality is an abomination to the Lord I will keep you in my prayers Lisa
If you want the happiness you are seeking in your life to make you feel complete then you do what you gotta do











Yes funkybum your attitude stinks (haha that's funny).
i would stick by your man if he is the most important thing i this world to you and you want to break it off because you don't have sex well there are alot of things that you can do to help him make to want to have sex try Viagra or the supplement that is now out in Australia don't give up on your man tell him what you want tell him where to touch or feel show him what it is like to have sex again but don't give up for a man that is 5000 Miles away that you don't really know





Vicky
i think that although youv gone out for a while, your partner will understand, its not all about sex but having a proper boyfriend and he cant give that to you. explain that too him and he will surely understand. all the best i think you should meet your new man!
Whatever you intend to do, your current partner deserves to hear it from you, and not find out the hard way, and I mean before it happens.
In a way you have been unfaithful by doing the porn and interacting with that other man. I hate to say it.


If you want to continue your frienship with your mate, maybe you should just be friends, since you have that best friend love. But if it's too painful, you might want to communicate to him your feelings and talk about ending it. Maybe you need some space, and see if after things cool off, you can be friends again.


J.
Listen, relationships are like butt holes, everyones got them........Problems in all.......Sometimes listening to our mothers is the best advice we could ever take.