i really love this guy and he kinda changed how i looked in my biggest fear%26gt;long distance relationship..
we're nearly a yr in this situatution and it's sometimes getting out of hand.. He's busy with his work, and Im starting to build a new life... and God bless the internet for the communication..but let's face it...actions speaks louder than words!im trying soooo hard to put everything in words..but sometimes,i just cant..i do love and trust him still,but there's just times that really gets into my nerves... sometimes it's just kinda boring...We're both loyal and everything..but time changes people..and i dont know if we'll gonna have a happy ending...it's just that my situation sucks..any advice how to put up flames in this kind of relationship?Advice on distant relationship please?
My opinion is not to give up on a long distance relationship. I am not giving you false hope. A lot of people say they are never going to work, but they ignored the fact that there are ones that actually worked. Ask yourself, why can't mine be those that actually work out?
I believe that as long as both of you love each other, it will work.
My advice is to fix a few days in a week, say: tues, thurs, sat and a fix time to log on to the internet, with programmes such as skype and see each other via webcam. Invest in a good webcam to see each other clearer. That would be the closest you 2 can get together.
Give surprises. You don't have to wait till special occasions to give presents. Send him a card any time, to tell him how much you appreciate him, miss him and love him. If time permits on both side, travel to see each other, or go on holidays in a different country just for a few days.
You can undertake drastic measures too if you are willing to find a job in his working country. But I know it requires tremendous sacrifice and courage. But in a way, you would know how much you love him if the opportunity comes for you to work there and if you wanna take the risk.
Write blogs. Share a blog and blog about your daily lives together with him. At least you know what each other is doing every day and how you 2 feel every day.
If you have friends on long distance relationship, seek advice from them too. Or consult those love guru books on maintaining a relationship.
But ultimately, if both of you love each other deep enough, love will prevail.
I wish you all the best.Advice on distant relationship please?
at the best of times love is a war,fighting and then waving white flags and nursing each others wounds.Feels good doesnt it though the hugs after a fight but is it worth the battle to get the reward.
when its long distance those hugs become less theyre just words on a screen or paper n you got it in a nutshell its actions not words that count,i recon the battle can't be won,reading a book or getting deeply into a movie will get you all that you get from long distance,short sweet bits of what should be a constant sorry.
physical contact is big part of relationship, eventually it will wear on you my advice is, to either move there or he moves back to you, unless that happens it will not work out.
maybe you should make a suprise visit. . .
Long distance doesn't work, so what you need to do, if you really really like that guy, is to make it short distance. As in, arrange for a get-together. I'd suggest neutral ground (e.g. city or country both of you haven't been to), and bring along a trusted friend.
Dont put your self thru a L-D relation **** its not going to work.
They NEVER DO!
i think u r young. i think he is young. ppl only get to be young once, ok twice, and thats when ur really old and its just a right. u said it ur self u r starting to build a new life. so did u need permission?? b friends for now, still do the intertnet thing. if it was ment to b then it will b. until then live life to the fullest....u only get one.........dont waste it!!!!
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