Relationship help.. I really need some advice on my relationship?

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now. Were both 18. I know I love him a lot and I know he loves me too and it would hurt a lot if we finished. He told me at the beginning of our relationship he would finish it if I ever cheated on him. A couple of months ago I kissed another boy at a party I was very drunk but that isn't an excuse. I'm scared of telling him incase he finishes it but he has the right to know and I feel so guilty. But I cannot be without him..Relationship help.. I really need some advice on my relationship?
You don't deserve him. If you can't handle alcohol and making good decisions, then you aren't mature enough to have a real relationship. You owe him the truth and you deserve the consequences. Maybe that will help you grow up.





Being drunk is NO excuse.Relationship help.. I really need some advice on my relationship?
First of all, you got to find out exactly what he meant or would take as ';cheating';. That will save you all the anxiety on guessing about what he may think. Then based on that you could decide whether you need to tell him at all about that kissing incident. Normally in a serious relationship, unless you are steady with another guy but keeping him in the dark, or really intimate with someone, that is not considered as cheating. A kiss is just a common expression that you like someone, just like hugging. Also if your BF can't even tolerate that, then you are really in for trouble if you continue to stick with him anyway. So you think through carefully and decide.





Good luck to you.
Hi there. The way i see it is that a kiss with someone else is not cheating, its not great, but as long as that is a far as it went i do not see a problem. If the person you kissed is someone you see regularly, i can see why you still feel uncomfortable, but if it was a one off with a stranger give yourself a break. xxxx
yep i agree with the last person.


my boyfriend kissed a girl when he was drunk too.


let me tell you thats ****** up. if you really love and


care for someone no matter how tempting someone is


you wouldn't touch/kiss another boy. he never told me


either, i found out myself. so tell the truth, he'll find out


another way if you don't.
Wow, this exact same thing happend to me. except i was the guy who got cheated on and she actually slept with him. I found out on my own and it was devistating. I'm still with her. But I think you should defiantly tell him, what if he found out from someone else. but be ready for some trust issues. but I guess if you can live with feeling quilty all the time do that.
Tell him, that your sorry, and you're not cheating rite? You're just DRUNK.. Expain it to him... It might help, and don't drink anymore, regret it...
You need to tell him. or let him read you yahoo question.