Advice on new relationship - crazy about her but don't want to get stuck!?

I'm 16 years old and so is my new girlfriend. She's the first girlfriend I've ever had and she's my first everything (kiss and so-forth).





I have been at camp for a month and she is now gone also, I haven't seen her in almost two months and I have to wait another few weeks. After all of this time away from her I have become insane about her. The day I came back from camp was the day she left, so I only talked to her on the phone and was in contact for just a few hours.





I told her I was crazy about her and everything. I'm wild for her. The thing is that I don't want to become controlling over her and I don't ever want to make us be exclusive. On top of that I want to never feel the need that she is my only happiness.





I want to stay how I am now, very passionate for her, but never forget what really means the most to me.





Please give me any advice for this relationship.





Thanks, and have a beautiful day!Advice on new relationship - crazy about her but don't want to get stuck!?
We all go through that during our teenage years. We mistake puppy love for the real deal. You are obviously still young and have a lot ahead of you. My number one advice for you would be to stay busy. Whether that is sports, student orgs or friendships, it does not really matter. Maintain your focus and stay level-headed. The last thing you want several years down the road is to regret your decisions.Advice on new relationship - crazy about her but don't want to get stuck!?
it's too early to assess the relationship.you can mail, call and be in touch always. now, try to study her. and let her know you too well. by doing this fusion takes place and if serious relationship turns out to be fine.other wise just remain as friends. all the best for a true honest relationship.
remember - you're 16.


don't bring up the ';love'; thing unless you KNOW it's going to last for a really, really long time - it hurts so much more when love is brought up and then it ends.


you always think your first girlfriend/boyfriend is the best thing ever and you always get head over heels.


but, as for your question - try not to get jealous. i mean, a little jealousy never hurt anyone really, when it's small and it doesn't get in the way.


2nd. don't call too many times, but just enough to show her you care about her and want to know how she's doing


3rd. you don't always need to know what she's doing


4th. let her have some friends! don't be the only person that she hangs out with, and don't have her be the only person you hang out with.


5th. tell her how you feel, but not all the time - don't freak her out!


but, this is all based on most girls i know. it all depends on preference. you OBVIOUSLY know her more than i do.


i hope you guys last!


you're welcome, and i hope you're day is beautiful too!