your not in love if your thinking about going out with other women you should just call it quits now your to young and immaturePlease help! Relationship question. need help/advice asap! thank u?
IT seems to me like you want to have your cake and it too. Here is a girl you love to spend the rest of your life with, a girl that you think about after you try other girls for fun , a girl that you admit that you love enough to spend the last two years together . Just know that love grows and , don't feel like you have missed out on the funnest years of you life. You still very young , you have yet to see a lot in life . Be patient , you might get what you want .Love grows , one love at a time .
Me and my Bf jus recently finashed, we were going out for 3 years, and im 18 in oct!, i sumtimes wished my first date and the stuff we did would have a spark again, bu i knew it would never happen because we were so used to each other, we finashed the relatsionship because we realised it was first love and its hard to let go, ive realised now iam young and i need to have fun with my life, i also think what you fought with other boys but loved my ex so much, i couldnt, now i can, even though it will hurt me to see him with another girl he will always have a place in my heart, but sumtimes you have to let go, go out and have fun because i missed that, there will be a time when you will settle down for good, i fought my x was the one i want to spend my life, but really i needed to get out of it and realise what ive missed out on, it hurt me and it probs hurt you but the reason u love ur gf because shes the only person youve been with for 2 years and havent had the same with another girl, but you need to follow your heart, life can only get better for you!!!
Yes, honestly I don't think at 19 it's a good idea to settle down. The fact that you think about going out with other people might be an indicator that you are losing interest in your girlfriend. You need to be a gentleman and let her down easy. It does not mean you two won't get back together again, but it's obvious you need to separate in order for you to grow a bit. It would not be fair to keep dating her-----she could be missing the opportunity to look for her soul mate. Please be a gentleman and let her down easy. It's a painful thing to break up, really painful for most. I still remember my first breakup that was very long ago.
Take care. Best of Luck to you!
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