I just started dating this girl....first girl I have ever been with, and I am completely head over heels in love. She has mentioned getting toys for in the bedroom....Can you give me some advice, and ideas on how to spice things up a little? Thank you :)New relationship....need other lesbians advice!?
OMG... I am right in the same boat with you... And what I did was ask my girl! I told her that I really needed her help, cause I wasn't sure what kind of toys we should get, and she so jumped right on that... First we talked about it, while we were in bed, it turned her on to no end, and we have finally decided to go shopping together... I made her wait a while, just cause she so enjoyed talking about it to me about it...lol
So... try talking to your girl... cause then, she can help you go pick out what toys the both of you would like to play with together...New relationship....need other lesbians advice!?
toys, role play, flavored lube, lickable oils, new positions, a strap on, sexy undergarments, massages, list goes on...
all you really need is communications. what do you two want to do?
For your first few times, i suggest dont use the toys. just do it natural. you body isnt used to anything yet and if it isnt used to it, the toys might hurt. let you mind go and you body take control. the best stuff happens when you arent thinking of what you should do and what might work?
oh and dont forget, be safe:
for protection, you can use latex gloves and lube, oral condoms, condoms on toys(optional since you whouldve washing them anyways.) always wash(disinfect) toys between and after each use.
for more info heres a link:http://lesbianlife.about.com/cs/sex/a/sa鈥?/a>
Yeah if you haven't even been intimate with one another yet I would hold off on getting any toys just yet. Start out with just enjoying each other, and learning about each other. Then when it is time to add a little spice it only makes sense to start off with talking to one another about what your both interested in trying. Have fun, be safe.
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Well strap ons are always fun but dont buy cheap ones. They suck and sometimes can burn your crotch. You can also buy a vibrator with 2 bullets which are less expensive. That way you both get pleasure at the same time and can do different positions.
Oh come on.. you really need advice for that?
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