Hi, i've started dating this guy that i really really like. i know he likes me too. We slept together quite quickly after dating a bit a while back but have been on about 6 dates and he's given me a lot of signs that he would - as i have made it clear i would - like it to progress into a proper relationship. We joke about it, but he's mentioned ideas about presents to buy for me, meeting my parents, how amazing and beautiful i am, even the L word has come up.... yet, i am stressing out! i have serious problems getting into a relationship and im trying to work through them but i worry so much about them not respecting me or treating me badly, or still being in love with their exes. He's mentioned his ex once and although he said she was a bit of a nutcase and not such a nice person i think he still fancies her a bit. i dont know. what if they get back together? sometimes he's a bit rubbish at texting back too, but generally has been the one asking me out etc. he says he feels really comfortable around me and hasn't felt that way about anyone else, and that i make him laugh but...AH! how do i control this madness in my head? i've never been hurt by any boyfriend before so its just madness. i just worry he won't respect me. i know this is all my own insecurity but i'm finding it so hard to push through it as im worried it won't work out that i almost want to end it right now.
ADVICE PLEASE!!!! xxxxxxxxAh! new relationship neuroticism and nerves - advice needed!?
BE COURAGEOUSAh! new relationship neuroticism and nerves - advice needed!?
honey if that's what your essential self is saying Go with your gut. I was feeling the same way about my guy about a year ago. We're still together but everything that I picked up from his vibe that I ignored reared it's face. Go with your gut. Trust your Self.
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