Advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. help from older men and women please?

I am 20 years old my boyfriend is 33. I find myself always arguing. He says i fight about everything. He never has time for me. and the things that he says really bother me. Like i ask him if he wants me to stay over. he tells me to do what i want to do. It just makes me feel like he doesn't care if i stay or i go. I am tired of arguing and me being jealous all the time. I tried leaving him but i feel worse when I'm not with him. can someone tell me how do i handle my emotions. What can i do so he won't get tired of me?...Advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. help from older men and women please?
At your age, the guys you date should not be older than 27. If a man likes you, he will make time for you. It's time to find a guy who treats you like a lady and who lights up when he sees your face.Advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. help from older men and women please?
I hate to say this , but your best bet is to move on and find some one else .


If you two fight and argue this much now , how will in be in a year from now ? Or God forbid if you 2 get married .


A true relationship is not supposed to be this stressful .
dont over react. Guys dont care if you stay or not and if they do you will never hear it. Just let go and see what happens. The less you over think the easier it will be and the more you will discover.
The bigger the age difference, the more your differences grow, and will continue to grow. He has already obtained the excitement from his life, that you want to experience now, so he is bored with it. As for the thrill of ';obtaining'; a young girl, he has done that, and is getting bored with the things he has already done, that you want to do. He has conquored the ';young girl'; thrill, and the ';thrill is gone'; and he is probably wishing you and that problem would ';just go away.'; I have seen this many times, and this is why I am saying this. I think it Is too late,and he has outgrown you, not to try to hurt your feelings, but I would try to move on, find other people who you may find that you have more in common with. When you do leave, you feel bad because of your normal routine, and you're at a loss of what to do with your time. I believe that he Does want you to go, because of what you have written here. When a relationship ends, either friendship, a marriage, or any other relationship, when it ends, it is like a death. It takes healing time, and that does not happen automatically. It takes time, and time is what you have to allow yourself to heal from this relationship that is no longer working. May you find peace in your life, and come to a decision about staying or going. It has to be one or the other, when something isn't working anymore. Good Luck... p.s. ';When one door closes, another door opens.'; Iylena

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