Monday, August 23, 2010

Just ended a relationship..please give me advice?

My boyfriend and I just broke up after 3 years,it was 100 percent on me i just wasn't feeling it anymore and am too young to be committed(20). I am fine on my own because i have a great family and friends who are here for me but im just so worried about him. I know he will be okay i just feel so bad because i know he is madly in love with me and just wants to be with me but he cant. He doesnt have a good family and only has a few friends who he is not close to. How can i not worry about him? its so hard,ive tried to just worry about myself but i keep thinking about stuff like his Bday and our anniversaries and pictures and just all the stuff i have bought him,how do i get over him getting over me? Is there any way i can help him. Sorry this is so long-please help and many answers are great.Just ended a relationship..please give me advice?
get him a therapist. sounds like he's obssesed with you. you can always be friends with him but it's time for both u to move on. i'm 20 too btw, do you wanna hookup?Just ended a relationship..please give me advice?
I recently ended my 3 year relationship also, I was the one dumped though. The thing about your situation is that you say your not feeling it for him and that you feel bad for him cause he does, however the fact you are caring so much may mean maybe you do have stronger feelings for him then you realize or want to. I know your young and he maybe to, but age shouldn't be a key reason to break up with someone. If you care this much about him that your beating yourself over pictures and anniversaries than you may want to sit back and rethink things over. Are you fighting your feelings or are you sincerely threw and want to move on? If you want to move on then do so, he's a big boy, he'll figure his way out. But if you have the slightest doubt and you think something may still be there for him then you need to stop denying it before its too late.

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