Advice needed on Relationship?

Exactly 1 month ago, my GF of 1.5 years broke up with me. We went on a 3 week break in November and got back together. Herreasons we're, ';she is not IN love with me anymore'; and doesn't feel the passion. This hit me very hard as she is my lover and literally best friend. We did everything together and for each other. I went 2 weeks with no contact and she began to call me asking to exchange our clothes we had. I sat back and tried to let her come to me. Lately she has been callig me a few times over the last week t tell me little things she saw or thought of (music concerts, etc.) I ran into her yesterday at the store and were cordial. This girl used to look up to me and call me for anything and everything including problems. I miss her alot. I am not too experienced in getting broken up with and getting herback. Please, Please give me advice on what to do to make her want to come back and miss me. I think she knows how I feel, I just want to do what I can if anything at this point....Advice needed on Relationship?
As hard as it may be I think you might need to be satisfied with just being her friend. Give her space, and time. Which I know, from experience, is the hardest thing to do.Advice needed on Relationship?
If she broke up with you 9 out 10 its somebody else got her attention, right now.but that soon wears out in about 2 to3 months the thrill will be gone,and she will be running back in your arms,i hope it dont be to late for her.because you might find someone else that likes you for who you is.falling out of love,people dont just accidently do that.somthing or someone cause that problem on people.you are no longer the love of her life any more someone have taken your place,once you stop receiving her phone calls,text messages,or even calling her,she going to wonder whats going on.stop running to her ever becking and call let her be.stop wanting her to want you or come back because if she got away with the first time shes going to do it again.MAN UP!!!!!!!! SHES NOT COMMING BACK.LET IT GO.
She has already moved on. It's over. As much as it hurts, you have to come to grips with that. I would love to give you a sugar coated answer and say that things could work out, but they almost never do when a couple goes through this. I know, your situation is different than all the others who also thought theirs was different. I know you won't take this advice because your feelings won't let you, but I'm telling you the best thing is to move on emotionally.





You sound like a good guy and if that's true there are plenty of women out there who wouldn't play this game. Move on.
i don't know, i guess let her go. honestly, at about 1.5 to 2 years the ';love'; does go away. that intense, euphoric feeling of being in love disappears and the the relationship moves on into the steady, long lasting level. it's a weird adjustment, but you get through it. but if someone's addicted to the early state euphoric talk for hours on the phone sort of love they'll move from relationship to relationship forever to get that feeling. i guess she's just going to miss out on a good thing in you and have regrets when she's older and realizes what an idiot she was.
well I would say thing will have to meet haft way. Why don't you come to her instead of wish that she come to you.


You can not make any one love you but you can do something and earn the love from them.


So why not call her up and talk, and starting to date. Spend some time together. it is summer, lot of play you two can go and do thing together.