Advice on my relationship...?

Im 19 and dating a 28 year old. He is the sweetest, most perfect guy for me... EXCEPT- He works at a restaurant, plays halo almost everyday, and is a virgo. He's not necessarily lazy, but he is lazy with his dreams and goals. Ive tried talking to him about all of this but he seems to just say that he ';knows and wants to go back to school.';





I can totally see myself with him in 50 years but those few things are holding me back. I want a life for myself and I feel like he has to step up to the plate and be somebody with his life...





What should I do? Whats some advice on how to approach the situation. I really like him. thanks a bunch!Advice on my relationship...?
I'm used to giving long answers to questions, but my answer is pretty simple here.





Since you're only 19, give it a little time and see how things progress. If you find one day that you're 21 and that he's camping out for the next Halo instead of going to work, then you still have the whole prime of your youth to move on if you choose to. If one day you find that you're 21 and he's in school pursuing a career, then you've done yourself a great favor by staying with someone you clearly care so much about.





You should also ask him for defined goals. Where does he want to be in 20 years? What does he see himself doing? Of equal importance, try and gauge whether he feels the same way about you as you feel about him.





And just out of curiosity, challenge him to give up Halo for two or three weeks. See if he can commit to something that would improve his life.Advice on my relationship...?
your a girl he is 28 oh come on you can get good boy better than him


and did he ever told that he likes you and be sure that he is not married
Don't be late.Propose him immediately.Or you must be the loser.
hmm, he seems to be procrastinating





talk to him what's holding him back from going to school, what does he want to pursue....if he cannot give a decent answer to that,,,,,,then it seems that this guy isnt interested in improving his way of life





at 28, things should be going his way in terms of career, time is passing him by, and most of his age group are already making names for themselves in the companies they are in. he's gonna be left behind.





and you need to decide / determine if you wish to be with a guy like that in the next 50 years or so.....