Advice on my relationship & family issues?

Iam23yrs old working girl. My sister is in 12th standard and my mum is widow, she is house wife. I have been leading my family rightafter12th class. I have been going around with my partner from past2yrsapprox. His family has been pushing him since then to marry but after 1yr he informed his family about our relation still they are in hurry. I told him to wait till the time my sister completes her schooling, guy agreed. One day my guy tells me that we should not increase our relation for such a long time %26amp; he believes that un-named relations doesn't last for more than 2yrs. He says we should marry in 6months as your sister will be completing her schooling. Now i dont want to marry so early because of 2reasons.


a) I am not mentally prepared to handle the responsibility of a family


b) If i marry in 6months my family's financial condition willbeextremely poor they have to depend on me %26amp; my husbandforeverything





which i dont want, my guy doesnt want to wait for a long time but iamnot sure if he will wait even for 1yr 6months. Because my sisterwillgive exams in march %26amp; her result will be out by July 2010. Thenshewill take admission in correspondence course, then she may take timetoget a job. I want at least my sister should start earning beforemymarriage what should i do?Advice on my relationship %26amp; family issues?
If you aren't mentally ready for marriage then comon sense will tell you to let the guy go. Seems as if you are using your family as an excuse not to get married Your family will be fine. I doubt your husband would object to you continuing to help them out once you are married. So, you are going to have to make a choise. Him or your family?Advice on my relationship %26amp; family issues?
I am confused. You will be supporting your mother and sister whether you're married or not. So what does supporting them have to do with it?





Are you engaged? You can get engaged and get married when you are ready, no matter how long it takes. That way your relationship is ';named.';





You should not get married if you feel forced into it.





And you shouldn't wait if marriage is what you want.

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