I need advice on my relationship...?

So my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. Recently his ex told me that they had slept together (this bothered me because I am a christian and I don't believe in sex before marriage and because he had told me he felt the same way and that he was a virgin too). I confronted my boyfriend and he denied ever sleeping with her. a week later his ex sent me a bunch of email and conversation scripts that proved he was lying to me. I again confronted him telling him I had proof and so he confessed. His only real words were that he was weak, he thought he was in love, he didnt want to hurt me, and that if I was in his situation he wouldn't have been mad at me. I broke it off with him but I still had this feeling that I wanted to be with him. We got back together and I told him I forgave him. Yet I just dont feel the same with him. He desperately wants me to be happy with him (he buys me red roses and gifts and tells me he loves me). I just don't know what to do. Any advice? thanks.I need advice on my relationship...?
Love doesn't lie!! I don't want to bring you down, but if he really loved you - he wouldn't have lied to you. A relationship has to be built on trust. Can you trust him never to lie to you again? I think you feel differently with him because you know you can't trust him. So now you have a choice - you can stay with him and wonder if he will ever lie again, or give him a chance to win back you trust. Or you can find someone who will be honest with you from the beginning. As far as your Dad goes, did you tell him that your boyfriend lied to you? I'm not sure he understood - I can't believe a parent would want their child to stay with someone she couldn't trust. You have to do what you feel is best, but I think in your heart you already know what you want to do.I need advice on my relationship...?
This has never happened to me but,yes your dad is right guys have weaknesses and he loved you so much that he didnt tell you i think that is sweet in a way because he didnt want you to get mad at him for doing something you are waiting to do later on in your life!Maybe this might help!!
if your happy i say stay with the guy he could be your one and only true love just go with whatever you think is best in your heart...hope i could help good luck
Ouch. Starting a relationship, the biggest thing you can have going for you is trust %26amp; it sounds like he has already blown that. Do you think you will ever be able to trust him again? Trust is so hard to earn once you have lost it, trust me. I cheated on my husband (now my ex) and 10 years later it still hurt him.
Love covers all things as they said. Your dad is right to forgive him , give him another chance. Bus as I read your problem as if you are so confused with your feelings towards him. You told him you forgave him but deep inside you, you did not forgiver him. I can't blame you for that. But you have to make up your mind, If you love him, give him another chance but if you can't, then you have to decide to let go of him and move on with your life.
Ok so basically he had the choice not to sleep with her. Thats one thing u should think out before u do it. And him lying to u if he loves u and believes that u love him to he should not have had nething to hide. But mayb now he realizes his mistake and truly is srry.... just some stuff to think about.
It is true, you shouldn't let something from his past ruin something that you guys have now. You probably sort of feel betrayed that he didn't tell you from the start, thats all.
He lied to you, not once, but TWICE.





If I were you, I'd move on... but that's just me. Love or not, I have enough respect for myself as a person to let someone lie to me repeatedly, especially about such a delicate issue.





Ultimately, it is your decision. If you have any reservations about your relationship, then don't proceed with it. However, if you feel like he's being sincere, then consider rebuilding what you have, slowly.





There are plenty of good Christian men on this planet for you to date.
I am so sorry to hear that but it has been my past experience that has taught me one thing .... Once a liar always a liar. I have found that this just starts a snowball and on it goes from there to the point that you are questioning everything they say.





If you aren't comfortable with him anymore hun it is time to say goodbye.
first and foremost sex to guys is just that..and they confess love sometimes to get it..your boyfriend made a mistake whether to forgive or not is your choice..l think the bottom line is how he makes you feel about yourself and whether you are both benefitig from this relationship..we all lie and am not defending what he did and how he covered it..all this he did because he is human and weak..you make the choice you are the only one who knows where you are in your life.
Listen to your Dad, take your BF back. In fact he sounds like a very good person. These days guys dont even buy roses for their girlfriends, but thats not the point im trying to make. He is human too %26amp; he made a mistake. I guess he was ashamed to tell you the truth because he might have thought that you would react the way you are now. Some things are better left unsaid. In this case it came out %26amp; you are having problems.





Oh by the way.. why was your so-called friend forcing all this info onto you? She sounds like a problem in the relationship %26amp; you should focus your attention on her rather than him if you need direction with your love life.
I hear you about the lying part. But give him a chance, and make him prove to you. Keep your values with you and don't give in to temptation. Just give you two a chance, and if your dad says so, there must be something he sees in your boy. Because usually dad's wouldn't say that to their daughters. lol. (Daddy's girl)
the past is the past, he did`nt know you at that time and actually he is not cheating you and really loves you, what do you want, let the chance of being happy go .