I NEED ADVICE ON A RELATIONSHIP! Please! I MEAN SHOULD I......???????????????? PLEASE HELP WITH THIS PROBLEM..

OK, IV'EKNOWN THIS GUY FOR 4 YEARS AND I AM NOW IN THE 9TH GRADE, AND HE IS IN 12TH, I JUST REALIZED THIS YEAR ON HOW MUCH I LOVE HIM! HE ACT ALL LOVEY DOVEY WITH ME, ACTING LIKE WE ARE GOING OUT, BUT THEN WHEN HE STARTS TO GO OUT WITH A GIRL HE STOPS, THIS IS CONTINUOUS. WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO RUIN THE RELATIONSHIP WE SLREADY HAVE! I LOVE HIM, AND HE SAYS THAT HE LOVES ME, BUT I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL HIM HOW I FEEL OR NOT, PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR OPINION ON THIS, I'D APPRECIATE IT GREATLY.


THANKS, HEATHER!I NEED ADVICE ON A RELATIONSHIP! Please! I MEAN SHOULD I......???????????????? PLEASE HELP WITH THIS PROBLEM..
Heather,





You need to be aware that what you feel is normal. Us grown ups also deal with similar problems. I think you should go ahead and let him know how you feel, but just be careful not to get in to deep with this relationship at this time. Both you and him have a lot of growing to do yet before things should get to serious. Above all sweetie, KEEP YOUR PANTS ON!! You really DON'T need the kind of problems that doing this can bring!! Save it for when you are married and you'll never regret it.I NEED ADVICE ON A RELATIONSHIP! Please! I MEAN SHOULD I......???????????????? PLEASE HELP WITH THIS PROBLEM..
THANKS! E-MAIL ME SOMETIME I NEED SOME FRIENDS TO CHAT TO! MY SCREEN NAME IS UPPITTYUP15HEATHER , THANKS!

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tell him tell him. may be the guy wants you to confess that you love him...thats kinda weird but well anyways...just tell himhow u feel. and if this ruin ur relationship what the heck with it. atleast when u get old you wont regret that u didnt even dare to tell someone u love tell him how u feel....so stop being a chicken and tell him lol
If he told you he loves you -- why would he go out with someone else? You said:';when he starts to go out with a girl';....


If he already said that he loves you, what is the harm in telling him you love him? Mutual love is a beautiful thing.


Good luck
im also in the ninth grade and if u think u should tell him u should definetely go 4 it i mean if your gut feeling is telling u 2 tell him THEN TELL HIM B4 ANOTHER GURL GOES AFTER HIM AND THEN U WILL REGRET
Yes, go ahead and show him how you feel. If you don't, maybe you will regret. You said that he told u he love u, right? So, at least u both love each other. So, go tell him how u feel. Gambateh!
u need to tell him set him straight let him kno u cant keep doing this either he likes u more than a friend or not and if not to treat u like a friend and not more cuz if this continues the only person who well be gettin hurt is u
OMG! ...........................I HAVE THE SAME PROB!






























































SOME1 HELP US?!?!?!?
WELL LOOK IF HE REALLY LOVED YOU WHY DID HE GO OUT WITH THE OTHER GIRL?JUST THINK THAT.THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS THAT GOING SAY THAT LOVE YOU BUT THERE ******* PLAYERS. AT THIS AGES THERE TRY TO BE WITH SO MANY GIRLS.TRY TO FIND A GUY THAT IS GOING REPECT YOU AND LOVE YOU.


BUT I DON'T KNOW, IT'S UP TO YOU TO MAKE THAT CHOSE.AND YOU COULD TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND HE MAYBE FEEL THE SAME.
If he is telling you that he loves you than why can't you tell him the truth....





you have to stop being intimated by him and just be honest with your feelings
go 4 it and tell him!!! good luck!!!!!!! i like a 12th grader and i am in 10th. good luck!!!!!!!