I need advice bout how long to hold on to a relationship!!!?

im sort of in a dilemma about my current relationship. i've been with my current boyfriend for about 3 yrs, but i always seem to think about one of my exes. he was my first real love and it's hard to let go of him. i love my current boyfriend, and plan on marrying him in the near future, but is it normal to question my current realtionship for an ex? and how long will it take to get over him(ex) or will i ever get over him?I need advice bout how long to hold on to a relationship!!!?
Its going to be hard because first loves are the ones that hurt the most so just try noticing your current boyfriend and value him be there that way you could fall for him and start to love him more everyday.I need advice bout how long to hold on to a relationship!!!?
Is your ex your first relationship? What is so special about him that keeps you thinking of him? You must find out these answers before you know how to forget about your ex bf.. Think of some things that your current bf have and not your ex..Its normal to think of your ex and compare at times but dont do it in front of your current bf..Spend more time with your bf, do more things together and you would get over your ex soon...
if u have to ask urself that question then i think u know the answer relationships should be fun not a obligation
You will always love your first love and think of them often, the question is 'Do you sometimes rather be with your ex then your current bf'?

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