Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Need Advice.. About one person in relationship working, and the other stays home to watch baby..?

ok me and my bf have a 6 months old baby...and right now my bf works and im unemployed but am looking for a job (when i have time,but i never get a break from the baby) and ever since he got this job its like i have ALL the baby duties,I have to feed him every feeding now,im up at 4-6 everymorning,running all errands with the baby, and playin with the baby...theres many times im off doing other stuff around the house and the baby will cry and my bf is right there just doing nothing!!so I have to drop everything to attend the baby.....i even got so stressed one time i tried to turn myself into the psyche ward and i tried tellin my bf the doc said i was stressed,i need more help with the baby,and more me time...and its like my bf didnt even care..and thebad part is he think he IS doing all this work i do 90% he does 10%,he think he is ALWAYS RIGHT!!! he says i do all the work and its like bs.....am i being unfair since hes working and im not????i mean im gettin so worn out i needabreak!!Need Advice.. About one person in relationship working, and the other stays home to watch baby..?
being a mom is a job. u dont have to be stressed. you are just pressured because you do all of stuffs and errands inside the house.and you think you need help.i know how tough being a mom but you can take things easier by loving it.leave all your errands when the baby is awake.then if the baby is sleeping you may do some cleaning or duties at home.and you have to give a consideration for your bf when his at home because he is also tired like you.after he rest maybe an hour will do, you may ask him to help you with the baby because you will do other stuffs.if you will approach him by nice words and not angry he will accept everything your asking for.just learn to take your time wisely....time management.you can do it!!GoodluckNeed Advice.. About one person in relationship working, and the other stays home to watch baby..?
U have to talk to him because he works all day fine but u take care of the baby all day and its not easy he has 2 work with u cause its both of you guys in this together regardless of who's working or not teamwork makes the dream work.
no i dont think ure bing unfare,but most guys who hav kids to young expect the gf to take care of the baby all the time n cook n clean,u really need to talk to him n ask him how expects to bond with his child i fhe doesnt want to take any responsiabilty in raising him,if he really love u n wants to help u he will try to help u out,if not please dont have any more babies till he grows up more(ure bf)..peace n love b wiht u.

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