Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Girls or ppl in a strong relationship i need guidance and advice please!?

my girlfriend that i love and i know shes the one for me, we were bestfriends and now we fell in love and are in a relationship and are in our first fight and i'm scared i'll lose her because i know shes upset but she denies it and won't talk to me, but please tell me how you got through you're first fight in a relationship and give me guidance! I'm tlking to her now but I'm asking you because every resource i have to keep us together i'll use!!!Girls or ppl in a strong relationship i need guidance and advice please!?
I have been in this situation and am at the moment. I am in a relationship and in love with my best friend. Our first fight was not easy because i am not one to talk about my feelings to anyone. So all i can say is talk about it. Do not avoid it thinking it will go away because if she is anything like me it will just build up and get worse. If you actually talk about it, it will make the both of you feel a lot better and if your anything like us, you will even get closer!





Good luck!Girls or ppl in a strong relationship i need guidance and advice please!?
First fights are always the hardest, but its normal so just give her some space but try to be affectionate to her so that she knows you care





You wont lose her, fights happen and are very normal in healthy relationships, just learn from them
What you two need to do is take a little time to cool off and don't do anything rash. You two are probably still rilled up from the fight and don't have your full sense about you. Take a day or so to cool off if you really need it and then sit down together and have a talk about it. If you don't think you can wait a day do it right away and try to get things back on track. Explain your side calmly, have her explain hers, point out the obvious problem or reason you're fighting and try to reach a compromise. Be sure to apologize to each other about the fight and once it's all talked through and out of the way learn to just let it go. It's over with it, so just forget about it. It's behind you two and you can now move on.
Alright. Just give her time to cool off. Give her some space. Call her later to night. If you don't know what you did wrong, tell her you're concerned and scared, and that you want to know what's wrong. If you know what you did wrong, give her a sincere, long apology.
just give her some time but not to much i'd be able to help more if i knew what the fight was about but if you have done something wrong even if u havent say your sorry and ask her to fogive you and say u will do anything not to loose her

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