and I reaaallly like this one guy, who everyone is almost sure is gay, but he hasn't come out yet.
And neither have I.
me and him have become pretty good friends recently, but i haven't shown any affection toward him yet.
i'm afraid to make a move.
i'm not even 100% positive he's gay.
what to do?
Ehh...need advice for gay relationship?
Just ask him flat out if he's gay. If he is, then just start flirting a little, so he gets the idea. If you wait for him to make the first move, you may wait forever. What if he's waiting for YOU to make the first move?
No need to touch him in the privates for no reason whatsoever, that will most likely just freak him out regardless of his orientation.Ehh...need advice for gay relationship?
Ask him to go for a walk in a more private place like a large park with trails you can both walk side by side on. Sit on a bench while others are not around. Bring up the subject of a fictitious pal you haven't seen for a long time and tell him you just heard from someone else that he is with a bf and you didn't know he was gay. Then add that you're happy for him, that that's the way one is born and everyone has the right to love and be loved. See what he says to that, as that is your opening. If he agrees with you tell him that now an they you've see gay partners and you even wondered what it was like to be with a guy, as you've heard that there is nothing wrong with experimenting with a friend that you trust. That is a real lead on. He may not bite right away, but it will give him food for thought and he may ask you to go for a walk next time. Don't stay on the gay subject if he doesn't bite right away though just in case he is straight and you scare him away. Good luck.
number one thing
never be optomistic
dont bring your hopes up..
and number two:
just tell him.
your gay
or just bring up a conversation
like
hey i saw these jews on tv going against gay pride parades. can you belive such a thing e_e
goodluck buddy.
Ask him or get a friend to ask him if he is gay. Or maybe if you are too shy, bait him into saying so. Then you can make a move. However you make your move, make sure you know his orientation first.
http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
read my answer to this question....its almost the same.
i agree let him make the 1st move.
wait wait wait for him to make the first move. don't rush it
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