Pregnant and need advice about my relationship, I think its over.?

I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and we are 5 months pregnant. i am 31 and he is 28. Through out the pregnancy, the only time that we have had any real arguments is when he wants to hang out and go clubbing with his friends. At first I wasnt thrilled about it but I didnt want him to resent me for it, so I would reluctantly let him go. But things didnt always go well, cause he would come home VERY late, between 4-6:30 am! so after this happening repeated, even though I asked him to come home by 2am, I told him that I do not want him going out anymore. He would see how much it would hurt me and how upset I got, and he would promise to not go out again. Well, there were times I would let him go to parties, like his his sister's bday parties, or special get togethers like cookouts/ or fight parties, but he knew I did not want him going to the clubs. FYI....i have been on bedrest for the last 3 months, due to PTL and Incompetent Cervix, so that is the reason I am always stuck at home. So, the other night, I went to the hospital for PTL, and this time my cervix was less than 1cm, so we were almost sure that we were going to miscarry, the Dr even said it, and i was in tears through out the whole day. my boyfriend was in the hospital with me most of the day, but had to go to work (boss wouldnt let him take off) later that day. I was admitted into hospital overnight and started on terb to stop the contractions and save the pregnancy. thank god that worked. my boyfriend got off work at 11pm and asked to come to the hospital, but since we have two young kids at home, I asked him to just be home with them, so he can see them off to school in the morning and then come to the hosp. He said okay, but instead what he did was go out to the club with his friends that nite, thinking I wouldnt find out! he came to pick me up from the hospital in the morning and didnt mention a thing. I ended up finding out later that day, that he got home really late, and only after I confronted him about his whereabouts did he admit that he went to the club. How could someone go clubbing when their girlfriend is at the hospital having a possible miscarriage?? I cant seem to wrap my head around this. It has been so painful to think that me and the baby must not be that important to him! I ended up kicking him out and said that I dont need the extra stress in my life..but I am left here so heartbroken, i cant see straight. He claims that he is soooo sorry, but I have had enough, and I dont want to compete with this night life that he seems to be missing so much!! thanks for reading, any advise would be appreciated.Pregnant and need advice about my relationship, I think its over.?
I respect ur decision, he can't responsible about u, how can he be a good father. Be strong and take good care of yourself and the baby.good luck.Pregnant and need advice about my relationship, I think its over.?
Wow, one question who the hell is watching your other 2 kids when he went out if you are not there? Is he doing drugs? Seriously that may be a possibility. Like anything else this is just going to take time for you to heal. He is a dad not a kid. You did the right thing. I think you were very generous taking him back and letting him do so much while your on bed rest in need of some TLC. Who was taking care of you? Don't take him back. This is nto going to change your enabling him by givign him somany chances. At this point he knows you'll always take him back. no fix 2 this.
He sounds immature and irresponsible. I can understand wanting to have a break every once in a while, but if all of this has been happening all throughout your pregnancy, that's far too much -- especially if you two already have two kids on top of this pregnancy. If he were my boyfriend I'd tell him to shape up and take some responsibility for the family he's helped create -- or get out. It's not fair to you if he keeps up with this sort of behavior. You deserve better than that.
SWEETIE THINK ABOUT UR BABY forget this guy to me this sounds like your being his mom.. find a man that will treat u right not one u have to parent.
I think it is all over...Now think and take care of the child and forget the childish rather the immature unloving person...