I need advice and fast.....relationship pending.....?

As some of you probably know my b/f and I got into a fight and we were supposed to be engaged at the end of Feb. because of the fight he thinks we should hold off....now all of the money he's saved for this month he is blowing... Should I stick it out with him to see what happens or should I just end things...ever since he has postpond everything I have doubts that he is ever going to propose and I don;t want to waste anymore time...I love him to death but I feel like because of his choice I'm on a leash...I have to do whatever he wants...I told him this is how I feel and he says just have faith that everything will work out...does is sound like he's being honest aboput proposong to me at a later date....? Or is he looking for an excuse not to do it?? Everything has changed since that fight and I don't know what the future holds for us now...he know s I was looking forward to the proposal and now I feel like it's not important to him anymore...I need help.I need advice and fast.....relationship pending.....?
I think you should just come out and ask him what's up. Tell him straight up that while he may be satisfied with playing the waiting game, you are not, and if he loves you as much as he did when you two first started talking about marriage, he should be reciprocating enough to try to put your feelings at ease about the situation. Good luck.I need advice and fast.....relationship pending.....?
If he can't get over the fact that you two had a fight I don't know how long your relationship would last even if he does propose to you. Part of being in a relationship is understanding that you won't always argree but you will still love each other. This whole holding off and making you feel like your on a leash is a control thing and if he is doing this now I would be concerned about him doing it in the future when ever you fight with each other.
I hate to be the 1 telling you this but I would say something is very wrong.


It sounds to me like he started the fight for a reason.


This is not a uncommon thing for men to do. ( Im a guy And I can say i have not went to this point but i have started fights to stop something from going on)


Sometimes we get scared and we want to make sure this is the right thing we are doing. But in the end All i learned was I started the fight cuz I didnt want to do it and I didnt know how to tell her it was over or I didnt want to do something.


Also You said you have to do what he wants you too.


This is not a good thing.


When 2 people are in love its a 50/50 and sometimes its 20/80 but in the end its 50/50


Also he made sure he didnt have the money to do this


thats so he can say ( honey I was scared And i do love you and want to marry you but I was scared and dumb and spent the money) so he made sure he had a backup plan.


I would not just walk away I would sit down and Talk this out and tell him what you think and how you feel and go from there.


And you said about time. If you stay with him and in the end it dont work you will call yourself alot of names. you will hate yourself for wasteing time with him.


I know its hard to walk away from someone you love. But trust me its harder to stay with someone you love and they dont love you the same way and they wont do for you what you do for them.


the longer you stay the harder it will get to stay with him.


You have the right to be happy and in love, You need to find out what is going on and if it dont work out well then you didnt waste anymore time then you have now.


Also if you do leave It is not worth it to hate him. Look at it this way you 2 had some good times and bad but at least you 2 didnt get married for 20years just to find out he is cheating on you and does not love you eoither


GOODLUCK
Drop him now!!! He will be the same way if you were married!
It seems like he isn't serious about the relationship anymore. If you are feeling kind of trapped and confused, it might be wise to back out of the situation until you are clear on everything. You should be very sure deep down before making such a serious decision, so take the time and space to do so! Best wishes to you!