I need advice on a relationship?

Me and one of my guy friends were both on the rebound around the same time so we decided to become friends with benefits. That was a few months ago and now I'm madly in love with him but he told me this morning that him and his ex have gotten back together and I'm heartbroken. I didn't even get a chance to tell him that I loved him. Should I tell him now in hopes that I will get him back?I need advice on a relationship?
Ahh--this is why friends with benefits never works. Everyone has to learn the hard way. But for now you feel like someone punched you in the stomach





First, definitely don't tell him you 'love him.' Nothing repels a guy away faster than a girl he's just hooking up with with telling him that she 'loves him.'





I think the other key word you used is we were on the 'rebound.' He is just the right now guy. Keep yourself busy and decide if you want to be there for him as a friend (if you can handle this). If you cannot, than limit contact with him. This will be easier since he has a girlfriend. Hang out with your friends and enjoy your time with them.





My vote is don't tell him how you feel in ';hopes of getting him back.'; You probably never had him, and if he felt the same way you do, he wouldn't want to get back with him ex-girlfriend. Besides, even if he did decide to be with you, you would always be wondering if he was talking to, or going to leave you for him ex. This one is just too complicated. Walk away and wait for a guy who only thinks about you and treats you that way.I need advice on a relationship?
You agreed to a loveless sexual relationship. He stuck to his end of the bargain and you failed in holding up your end. It would be pointless to share this with him. He was sharing your body, not your hear or your feelings. He got exactly what both of you said you wanted. Consider it a painful lesson learned. Don't agree to physical relationships with no feelings attached. When you're on the rebound in the future, try spending time alone, getting to know yourself rather than hooking up with someone because you feel lost and empty when you're alone.
I don't think that he will necessarily break it off with his ex- but I don't think that it's a bad Idea to let him know how you feel. Understand that you agreed to do the friends with benefits thing with no clear objective of ever establishing a real relationship. to him, you were just that friends with benefits...you might be in for more heartache. I'm sorry, I hope this helps. Good Luck!
You should tell him , how much U love her ; but if he doesn't have a warm roamntic response ; then maybe he is not interested in a love relationship with U;


but ,hey U can still be a good friend of him ; I have seen many male - female friendships that dont cross the line of friendship to romance but are still very successful
The feelings you are having may just be cause you broke up with someone and he was there to give you comfort. However if the feelings are true then wait a little while and see how things go with him and his ex,when people get back together things can be rocky. If the feelings are still there tell him the truth
you should wait a couple weeks. make a couple flirts, but dont say it outloud. that how i get guy friends attention. and if he doesnt break up with her. say it out. and if he doesnt think your great, well screw him!!! a guy should actually care for you, not get forced. i have alot of fun with my guy friends that are close to me. i dont have a boyfriend i dont entend to....yet. you can be friends if it doesnt workl out =)))) gl
my theory is..... would you rather regret something you did, or regret something you didnt do??





u never know how he feels about you! he may be getting back with his ex but remember one thing, she is an ex for a reason!!! so talk to him! tell him how u feel!! it might make u sad in the end to know he doesnt feel the same way.. BUT if he does then ull be glad u said something!
its tooo late to regret giving it up so easy. you are just pissed off that he has gone back to her when he told you that he wouldn't. To him you were a good **** in the down time but now the girlfreind wants him back sorry bad luck thats what it's like to be used
Tell him!! Tell him you love him and all the reasons he should be with you! Tell him once your break up with someone and have sex with someone else things will never ever be the same --- tell him you love him and need him more than her.





I would.
Tell him. But dont get ur hopes up just in case.





Just tell him so he knows.





He might be anoyed for you telling him but you need to get it off your chest otherwise ur gonna get really really emotional. or crack =S.





goodluck.





xx
You should be honest with him and tell him how you feel. You might be surprised and find out he feels the same way.
I dont think you should do that because I don't think there will be a chance you will still be friends anymore
Move on.
Well I think that's all you got. Go ahead, DO IT !
i think you should go for it