Anyone can give me an advice on a relationship?

My g.f and i broke up a month ago but i still loves her more than anything. We have been talking during this past month as a friend and she admits that she still have feeling for me and still loves me dearly. So, i asked her to give this relationship another chance. She didn't say no but she said it's not the time yet. I asked her what are u waiting for? she said in a playing tone of voice that u haven't ask me back out yet. So, when i wanted to ask her back out, she has to go so i didn't get the chance. At night i called her, i asked her let's work out our problem but she said ';I don't know';, i don't think we would work out. I said why? she told me she slept with a guy she met online 2 weeks ago. I was so pissed but i still said i will forget what u did and start over. But she still said i need time to think it over. She never gave me the answer yet. So, i need some advice, do u think i should get back with her when she slept with someone else and said she still loves me?Anyone can give me an advice on a relationship?
I think you should back off and not be so convenient for her. Let her wonder if you're still interested in her or not.


It sounds like she's playing you along.


And that's not good whether she wants to be with you or not.


I'm wondering if she wants to see how things work with this other guy, but wants you to still want her in case it doesn't work with the other guy.


If she still loves you, then why wouldn't she want to be with YOU?





Put it this way:


Why would you want to be with someone that isn't sure if they want to be with you or not?


You should want to be with someone that wants to be with you just the same.





And if she would be going back into this relationship saying ';I don't think we would work out';....it probably won't work with that kind of attitude going into it :(





You deserve better.


Why settle for someone that isn't sure if they want to be with you or not, when you can go out there and find someone that loves you in return.


That's happiness :)Anyone can give me an advice on a relationship?
The answer is : Leave her alone and carry on with your life. Don't waste time asking her the same questions. You are not spare tyre and she doen't love you. If she loves you, she would not do that. Ok
Why do you want to be with someone who sleeps around? she's telling you loves you to keep you as a ';spare';.


Forget her and move on.
People make mistakes, she is giving time to think about what she did. You on the other lied to her you told her you would forget what she did, but now your thinking about it again. You will never forget what she did, but you may forgive her in time. If you love someone let them go, if they return their yours forever! Give it time only time can tell
i believe that she is just confused about how she feels. its hard on anyone when they are in a relationship. i remember when me and my exe first met a yr ago. we liked each other very much and were so much alike. however when we decided to start dating, i was VERY nervous. it was my first (and only so far) relationship. i was very scared and unsure. and i also wanted time to think bc i was confused. i too didnt think we would work out at all...although we had so much in common.





in the end, it was all good.





even though she slept with someone, i think u both try again. you seem very caring about her. try talking to her again. im happy that you talked to her about how you felt, thats a very important part to a relationship. i dont blame you for being angry at her for what she did, i too would be angry if someone said they loved me and did something like this. and you seem to still care deeply about her and giv it another try. go for it. ask her if she regrets what she did and was sorry. sometimes people become afraid of what may happen. i was scared and was scared because i didnt kno how it would turn out.





i think she is confused and a little afraid because she doesnt know how things will all turn out, i think thats y she is unsure and did what she did.





let her think it over and try talking to her again. i think you should get back together and see if it would work out. all you can do is hope for the best and stay positiive. let her think it through and keep showing her your always there to talk. it'll work out for better, no worries :)





good luck and i hope it works out!!


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She sounds like a wh**e. If you have true deep feelings for her go ahead and get back together. iF i were you, i would try to get over her.
Hi there,





No, unfortunately I think you need to distance yourself from her. Her mixed signals are a sign that she is conflicted about how she feels about you. It's not unusual for you both to still have feelings a month after the break-up.





I don't know if completely cutting yourself off is the best decision but you may need to face that. She doesn't seem to know who she is or what she wants right now.... hence she sleeps with some guy she met online.





People who truly love each other are honest to themselves and to each other. Saying she loves you, but then sleeps with someone else isn't exactly that, is it? :(





Give yourself some space and time to think things through. You may need to sort your feelings and thoughts out yourself as well, without having her as a mirror. If, in a few weeks, you still feel the same about her then try talking it over again. After trying out other guys, she may realize that you were the best catch for her after all.





Good luck!
no. move on. you have to hold out for people who treat you like you deserve. she sounds like a prat.
well if your not together then it shouldn't matter if she slept with someone else. if you do have feelings for her like you say you do then wait for her when its time she let you know and if she doesn't maybe it was never meant to be. it depends on the reason you broke up was it a bad break up or a good one. you may always love that person but not be with them anymore. Love is a hard thing to control. you can't control who you love maybe you are better off with out her. or thats what i see if she is meeting and sleeping with others it means she is not sure what she wants yet and she is exploring everything she couldn't when she was with you. only time will tell you can wait or move on. you never know the right person can walk into your life as you wait and you may have a change of heart hope i helped a little take care
she rethinking
I don't think she wants to get back with you. Because if she move on that fast then she over you and playing with your heart. So i think you better move on with your heart, before she takes your heart, smash, break, crush, spit, pee, S.H.I.T., and some other stuff to you heart. But it aint my heart its yours.
To be honest, it sounds like she is keeping you around for a ';backup boyfriend';. Is she still talking to her online hookup? Is she talking to someone else? She is leading you on from what i see and she may really love you-but she is just not in love with you.





I would just let her go. If it was meant to be-it may work out in the future, but if she slept with another guy that fast, she still has some ';wild oats to sew';.
sounds like she just doesnt want to get back together because she wants to mess with other guyz and see what else is out there. she probably thinks you will be right there waitin for her when she`z dun screwing around. let her know you want be around forever and if she still ';doesn't know';... just leave it up to her. theres nothin you can do.





i know what you mean cuz im goin through a similar situation with my ex. i just let him know that im willing to try again. he`z not ';ready'; or wantz to think or whatever. so i just let it go. if he wants to be with me...he'll come back.





just remember that if she really loves you... she`ll realize it and want you back. your bein a really good person by bein able to look past what she did. but ask her this...';does she regret it'; if she says no... thatz all the answer you need.
If she doesn't think it's a good idea then it's best that you leave her alone. She probably has more reasons why she doesn't think it would work out. She is involved with people she met online so she must be trying new things so she does not want to be in a relationship. Don't pressure her or force the issue. If you really like her just let her know how you feel and wait to see what happen. If you want a relationship right now and she doesn't, then do what's best for you and find someone who is ready.
its risky giving her another shot because she was willing to sleep with a guy so quick but if you really love her there is no reason why you shouldent. I suggest that yuo both try to to things together before you get back together like dates and games and even church. Church will help lots of relationships and open up so manys doors for new conversations.
I think she fell for this guy, just forget about her and move on, if she really wanted to be with you, she would have not slept with him, I recommend not to get with her cause, she doesnt seem to care about what she did to you.
I think that would depend on how much you love her, and your trust for her. Trust is a major thing in a relationship. You would have to also ask yourself if you would want to be that person (roles reversed) and could live with what had happened. No one can go back and change the past, hopefully you won't ever hold it against her for ';experimenting'; while you two are not together.
LEAVE HER .. she is leaving you dangling on a string mate. Dont put up with it. the miniute you stop calling and showing interest she will be all over you.. dont fall for it. SHE CHEATED she deserves to be dumped. Id find a new hottie cause u seem like a decent guy! I kow it sounds harsh and hard but believe me if u let her away with it once she would do it again and waste your time when you could be finding miss right! if she loved oyu then 1 why did she do the dirty on you 2 why wont she give oyu a straight answer, its like she waiting to se eif someone else will come along and she is keeping u incase. NOPE KICK HER TO KERB
Bro, she is toying with you. look @ her actions. if she said that she slept with someone online and told you about it, she doesnt care about your feelings. what you need to do is get some balls, and wake up. she doesnt take you seriously. she is in the mood to hurt you until she got her fix. and you really dont need a friend like her in your life. then she will drop you like Bush dropped his help for the hurricane Katrina people. its too many women who is looking for a good guy, so leave her be.
She's toying with you. I personally think you shldnt get back with her. Remember, you broke up for a reason in the first place! Only time will tell if you were meant to be together.
move on from my experience it will more than likely not work
Well my advice is that you just need to try to occupy yourself with other things for a while and get your mind off her, if she is sleeping around then it sounds like she is over the whole thing, and when she says she loves you, it is probably more like a friend. When I broke up with my boyfriend years ago, I just kept myself as busy as i could. And after a time you will not feel the way you feel now. You will forget! There are so many wonderful people in the world, someone even more special is waiting to find someone like you!
Its normal to still have feelingsforsomeone right after a break up. She keeps playing gameswith you and thats not right. I know its easier said than done, but it is time to let her go. You dseerve someone better.