Long-Distance Relationship...Lots of arguing. Advice Please?

My girlfriend and I have been off and on for about a year and a half. I moved away from home for 9 months to attend school. My girlfriend never wanted me to go and was telling me that I was ';leaving her';. Anyway, I've gone home quite a few times to see her. When we're together...things are relatively good. When we're not together, we just argue sooo much about the pettiest things....as well as things in our past....when we were broken up one of the ';off'; times. She always tells me how I never put her ';first';, and that everything else to me is ';more important';. I'm training to be an Audio Engineer, which requires a lot of time and learning, which she doesn't like since I'm somewhat busy. She doesn't like it if I talk to friends who call me from home if I'm on the phone with her because they're ';more important'; than she is. I never said that. Anything that could involve me doing something other than talking to her on the phone...in which we talk ALOT isn't putting her first. Please help!Long-Distance Relationship...Lots of arguing. Advice Please?
You will never ever please her. If she attempts to hold you back, then she's not worth hanging on to. That is the sad truth. Sounds like you should just keep doing what you're doing, going after your goals, and leave her behind.





With a busy schedule, you'll need a more secure woman, possibly with equal intelligence as yourself, who is understanding because she will also be busy with her own life.





Sadly, if you stay with your present girlfriend, she'll keep whining, crying, trying to control you and may eventually pull you down to her level.





No! You must keep on striving for your own goals. You are not responsible for her, she's an adult and she should've known better than to attempt to keep you home.





What does she really want? For you to stay by her side, staying uneducated, low paying menial jobs, beside her? You don't want that. That's far too suffocating.





What you decide to do from here should be a decision only you can make. Take care of you cause no one else will.


~~~~~~~~~Long-Distance Relationship...Lots of arguing. Advice Please?
She should come before your friends but not your family
two words DRAMA QUEEN ! ! ! ! ! poor guy..... do you love her if you dont then take off she sounds kinda crazy. be careful and goodluck