Ive had a serious bf for 2yrs now but I cant help and feel sad every time i find out he's been talking, emailing with his ex. We have had some problems in the past with her and he's cut back tremendously his contact with her. (Ive hung out with her and actually wish she was just a name to me and not a face). (fyi-she is his bf, known each other for 8yrs, and both actually do not have feelings for each other) I dont think im strong enough to keep putting up with their contact albeit being very minimal at present. The reason, even though I know there are NO lingering feelings, they have shared a lot and she was beyond emotionally attached to him and he did whatever she asked(even when they were friends and we were dating). They still obviously have some emotional connection and I really cant overcome it. I feel inferior( i know its all about how strong i believe the relationship is and how confident I am) but its difficult. I cant just logically think ';he's with me and not with her, that's what matters'; because I feel like he needs her in his life and i am not sufficient. I told him I need to work on myself, by myself. I love him very much. What should I do?I need some honest and serious advice on my relationship.?
tell him to stop!I need some honest and serious advice on my relationship.?
There is a brilliant website which tells you about relationships and how to get the best from them. There is a load of support there, I think it is extremely useful. http://muners.courtingonline.info
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