my bf is in the military so right now he is in a totally diff country and everytime he goes out and is around girls i think he might be cheating in some way..like maybe hiding something from me. as u can tell im very insecure. lol but i dont wanna push him away if he isnt. but he has a myspace account and its private. he wont tell me who all is on his friends list and he wont let me see it. i dont kno if im over reacting or what. But has anyone ever heard that guys cant go w/o sex? lol i need some advice b/c i dont wanna ruin my relationship by accusing him all the time if its over nothing. please help!!I need advice on my relationship?
maybe he has already, guys like to have sex and if your not around he might be getting it elsewhere, your too young to deal with a long distance relationship, just go out and try to meet local guysI need advice on my relationship?
if you have a myspace how come your not on his? if you don't get one and if he dosnt add you that sounds fishy.
don't ever push to hard on a subject like that especially if you have no proof
occasionally ask himabout with out going to far
he says no, you drop til another time
and ask why to but unless you have hard evidence to back anything up dont push the subjext
he may just be private,
I don't get the big deal aobut the myspace page.. that would send up redflags to me.. take a deep breath.. even if he is cheating.. he is an entirely different country.. ... stop obsessing over what u think he might be doing.. and start looking at what he is doing?.. is he trying to keep your relationship tight?.. is he doing the things he should be? Calling, emailing, and whatever other form.. if not.. u take a step back too.. let him see how that feels.. to be put on the back burner... if you are always there he will tkae it all for granted..
just trust him. or find someone else. but it is bery difficult to find someone that is 100% faithfull. the olny thing you can hope for is he done bring home a sstd.
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