I need advice on my relationship?

I love my boyfriend of 3 years but he is always so blahh, and is hardly ever into having sex, I know he works hard and is tired and stessed out most of the time due to work but how do I get him to wake up a little, im 26 and he just turned 32 i still want to have fun go out have a couple of drinks have some wild sex and he never wants to do things like this anymore, he used to 3 years ago when we first met but now its like hes dead, does anyone have any advice on what i can do to makemy boyfriend just lossen up and have fun again? i have tried talking to him but it dont seem to work. thank youI need advice on my relationship?
Sorry you're disappointed in your relationship. I know it's frustrating when you want to go out and have fun and he doesn't.





You have tried talking to him. Has it been along the lines of ';why don't we... anymore?'; or has it been more understanding as in ';I really miss you and want to go out together and have some fun';? Believe me, the tone of that conversation makes a lot of difference. Don't give up on talking with him, but try not to nag.





You say that he works very hard and is stressed out. That's a sure fire killer of a man's sex drive and motivation. Think of how you'd feel if you were in his situation. It might help you understand. It's not that he doesn't want to go have fun, it's more that he has to use all his energy for work and the stressful situations he's in.





I'd recommend setting up a date together. Make sure that part of the date includes you giving him a relaxing back rub. Works like a charm.





Good luck!I need advice on my relationship?
He's sending strong signals that he's about to break up with you, maybe because he already has someone else, but if you are living together, he feels he's got it made and wants to continue. My advice is have a long talk with him, open up with your feelings. If he doesn't want to mend the relationship, it's time to separate for awhile, or maybe for good. You don't want to get really hurt, and breaking away will give you both some space. Hope it works out well for you and your bf.