Any advice for tonight? relationship help?

i was going out with this girl for over 2 years and she split up with me at the weekend, i love her and she says she still loves me, yet we haven`t got back together. Ive only ever been with her as im still only 17 but shes my first love and im going out tonight, my mates say i should have fun and ';pull';, but i love my ex too much and want her back, any advice...Any advice for tonight? relationship help?
dude what u need is a conversation!!! sit n hv a cht find out wt is going wrng y ds happed?? we were not like ds...y ? wt is d reson dt we are in ds situation... jus find out the problem...dt is going on in b/w ur relation..n try to slove it out...k hope my ds little adives works... all the bst!!!Any advice for tonight? relationship help?
awww sorry to hear that. You do what you feel is right and that sounds like you want her and no one else. Go out with your mates just be careful what you get up to, as if you have a drink you might not realise what your doing (if you pull) and if she gets wind of it that might spoil your chance with her! Can you not leave tonight and and try and resolve your differences out with each other, if you can't go out have fun, just remember if that is not what you want to do don't do it! I have just seen the same happen with my daughter she just wanted more space and more trust she still loved him too, he has given her that now and they are back together. That might not be your issue but thought I would mention it as most of the time it normally is reasons like that.Good luck and if you need more help give me a shout :)
This is a tricky one, as you can't force yourself to have a laugh with your mates when you don't feel like it!





If you don't want to pull, then just try and have a laugh with your mates and explain that you will go out on the pull when you are ready; they should understand. They probably just want to see you have fun again and that's the only way they feel they can help you at the moment.





Don't go on the pull if you think that it may jeopardise your chances of getting back together with your ex!





But at the same time, don't hold yourself back if you meet someone you really like.





You don't want to stop your whole life whilst you wait and see if you get back together. Remember, she broke up with you, so don't stop and wait on the 'hope' she might change her mind. She'll probably decide she wants to get back together with you just as you have met someone else, anyway; girls are all the same!





I found a great article on dealing with break ups which has all the information you need:





http://www.live-better.co.uk/relationshi鈥?/a>
Well if you think theres any chance of you two getting back together then dont go out on the pull as it will ruin the chance you might have.


Ye havent even been broken up a full week yet - things change, but if ye dont get back togehter over the next two or three weeks chances are ye wont - so you have to start looking to the future and eventually will need to move on.


xx
honestly do what you feel is right !


if you love her maybe you shouldnt do anything but its better to let go rather then sit there and feel bad casue if shes not getting back with you it most likely means she dont like you anymore bubt do what YOU feel is right !!!!
Talk to her and ask her why she broke up with you and maybe you two can get back together. But dont do anything stupid tonight even though your mad at your ex it could get back to her and then she may never take you back...
if i was you i would go out on the pull and end up having sex with another girl to teach your ex not to play hard to get
Don't listen to what your friends say you idiot, follow your heart.