I need advice with a relationship.

my best friend was dating this guy, and his parents didn't want him to see her, talk to her, or be with her because her parents do drugs, so they made him break up with her.





then he told me how he kinda liked me, then when he met me, his feelings got a lot stronger. we have basically everything in common, and him and my best friend didn't. she'd put him down sometimes.





he asked me out 4 days ago, and i said yes, but i feel guilty about it because i didn't tell my best friend about this. i don't want to ruin our friendship.





i really love him, and he really loves me, and his parents approve of me and my mom. there's already 10 people that think we're perfect for eachother, and we look cute together. he didn't leave her for me or anything, so i shouldn't feel bad, but i just think that me going out with her ex is the problem. i don't want to leave him, and i don't want to hurt her. i've been keeping this a secret.





my question is, should i tell her?


and if so, how should i?





i don't want any rude comments, so don't comment me if you're not going to help.





thanks.I need advice with a relationship.
It's never a good idea to lie to your friend.


If you want to save your friendship you need to tell her immediatly.


And prepare for her to be VERY upset and even demand you break up.


If you really like the guy, then hopefully she can cope and you two can be friends and you can date him.





But I can tell you from personal experience, your friend may resent you. She may feel like you've kicked her to the curb for a guy and that you aren't a good friend.





I hope it all works out for you. Good luck!I need advice with a relationship.
I think you should tell her, She is your best friend and she does deserve to know. Things might get a little bad with the friendship, but think about how much worse it could be if you dont tell her and she finds out from someone else and not you.