Im in the navy and need some advice for my relationship please help me out?

Im leaving for the navy soon and my girlfriend is really starting to freak out. we were and still are close to breaking up before i leave because she is worried she might not be able to handle me being gone especially since she is in a stressful college environment. we have talked a lot about marriage and having kids and her coming out to san diego but i will be in training for about a year. my problem is that i have been telling her how i feel, and well seeming desprit and needy even though thats not the case, its that i cant give up and loose the best thing thats happened to me. we are in love but still young and unsure what to do. I just need some advice please, on what i should do for her so i dont seem needy and push myself away even more. thanks for your helpIm in the navy and need some advice for my relationship please help me out?
My heart goes out to you....you said yourself you're young, and she's freaking out and you're on the verge of breaking up, don't push, and PLEASE don't rush into marriage if you're not ready and it doesn't sound like you are. I know this is very difficult, but trust me if this is meant to be, if she is trully the one you are meant to be with, she will stand by your side while you're away. I know this doesn't help you, but I'm telling from experience, have faith, and things will work out for you.





You're in my thoughts....good luck to you.Im in the navy and need some advice for my relationship please help me out?
First thing don't get married just so you can keep her. My Ex Husband was in the Army and we got Married just because he was going away and i wanted to go to. Needless to say we are divorced. If she is right for you she will wait while you are in MIT and boot camp. Don't rush if she is not the right one you will find someone who is. Not everyone can be a Military Wife it is hard especially when you are gone on tours. Any other Advise let me know i am a Wis at the Military issues
I know its hard. If she loves you, she'll stand by you no matter what. On the same token when you join the military you basically married to it. Some women are cut out to be military wives others aren't. I had a girl choose her military career over me, and I chose my career rather than have a girlfriend. If you're going to be there for 4 years, things should work out since she's going to school. Once you're done with basic you'll have phone time almost every night.