I have been in a relationship for 13years and have 2 children, advice please!!!!!?

we have had a very up and down relationship and i am not an easy person to live with, but then i don't ask for much. I have sort relationship councelling, but feel that i have had enough. I have tried to end this relationship before and i am looking for advice and perhaps support.I have been in a relationship for 13years and have 2 children, advice please!!!!!?
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http://abelle.blogrox.com/2007/10/14/a-d鈥?/a>I have been in a relationship for 13years and have 2 children, advice please!!!!!?
both of you get help. the kids need you both. you have to work at it hard
Talk to him and I mean really talk to him, explain everything and express your feelings. Give him a month or so to get his own place or yours. It is going to be difficult, but you have to make it go as smooth as possible for the kids. It isn't fair to you or him or the kids to stay in the relationship.
DUMP HIM IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE MISSERABLE
listen you sound bored


13 years is a long time


think back when times where good,


and go from there


you hard to live ,because you want be hard to live with


look in your mirror, and tell me some thing you offer this marriage, if you find that hard, maybe you dont need to be married ?
talk to your pastor at church, if you don't have one look for christian counseling. it would be good for both of you
How old are you? Break the cycle...men are the same and women are the same! You lose your history if you quit, your kids pay a huge price for what others say is the right thing to do, and you get a whole set of new problems. If he is being mean to you; get over it, if he is truly dangerous run (and don't trust anyone's opinion on this you will know). Do me a favor. Play a game. Turn your water off for a couple of weeks and see how bad life really is (ask him first)...if he is willing to do it ; he is a good man. Regardless, don't fall for the images of a better life, remember you are 1/2 the reason you want out of the relationship! If he is a semi-good man you only give your children grief ! Cheat! Knit! Pick-up tennis! Find your own place of happiness. When can I come over? ;) Beeee Strong %26amp; Good Luck