Okay, so I started going out with the guy I had been crazy about foreeever at the beginning of this month. So far we've had one date, and it was great. For the first few weeks whenever we talked he was always going on and on with the complements, and the ';I miss you'; and ';I'm thinking about you';, blah blah blah. But this week he seems...different. He used to come over and talk to me at school all the time, and he's stopped. I was really down about school, I kind of didn't talk to anyone, but I pulled myself out of it...I went on this whole long rant about how I was going to be more open with him and stuff, because I convinced myself that it was me who was the problem. But all he said in response (this was on IM by the way. I know, great place for deep conversation, right? ha ha ha) was ';well, do whatever you want. I have to go.';. WTF? I don't know for sure, but I am fairly certain that last week he would have been a whole lot more sympathetic and had way more to say aboutGrrrrr, why did I think it would be easier once I was actually in a relationship? I need advice please...?
Give him a little time to see if he can correct the mistake he made (i.e. one day) If he doesn't on his own, let him know how it made you feel tomorrow in person. Tell him you unloaded your soul and would like some give instead of take. If he can't understand or even try to, he's probably not worth the trouble.Grrrrr, why did I think it would be easier once I was actually in a relationship? I need advice please...?
He isnt interested in your problems he just wanted to have fun.
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So did you guys end up having sex? If so, it's possible that he just played you to get some action and then dropped you after he got what he wanted... If this is the case, then I'm sorry for your luck...
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