Really need advice about my relationship.l pease!!!!!!?

dis is my first boyfirend. it's a long distance relationship (westside/eastside of town), and we been ';officially'; dating since march. he just about calls me everyday and da conversations range from at least 1 1/2 to 4 hrs usually . da crazy part is dat we act like bestfriends more than a couple. it may sound wierd cuz he doesnt screw up or do anything wrong but at da same time; he thought we were goin out and failed to let me kno, he makes plans about us doin things 2gether 4 our b-days (they're close 2gether) and other things like dat. he never just say wat he means though, and he doesn't act affection toward me. i've been contemplatin breakin up wit him.


now his fam wants 2 meet me!!! and i'm kind of nervous. and at times i feel he feels da same way but then again he feels comfortable and sees nothin wrong.


if i bring somethin like dis up he starts havin amnesia (no lie) and start changin da subject. i guess he light weight shy and don't like expressin his feeling to me...Really need advice about my relationship.l pease!!!!!!?
Okay - you like him, but you aren't sure how much, or in what way, he likes you, and he doesn't communicate with you about important stuff... is that close?





Here's how you deal with it - you sit him down, somewhere you can be face to face and uninterrupted for a while, and you tell him you're feeling uncomfortable and unsure and you need to talk to him. If he starts developing ';amnesia'; and changing the subject, you point it out, ';Hey, this is really important to me and we have to deal with it.';





If he won't, then you tell him ';I like you a lot, but I just can't handle being this confused all the time and not being able to talk to you about things that are important to me.'; He will either sit down and ';man up,'; or he'll clam up and split.





Only you know if this is a dealbreaker for you. Is what you get from the relationship enough to make it worth your while to put up with this other stuff if it doesn't change? If it is, then you bring it up, and if he won't talk it through, you forget about it and go on. If it's a dealbreaker, you give him a chance, and if he won't deal with it, you move on - without him - and find someone who recognizes that it's important if you don't feel valued/loved.





A healthy relationship includes ways for the people in it to deal with problems if one of them isn't happy with the way things are. Only you know how big a problem this is for you - so you do what seems right for you based on what you need/want, and how important it is to you.Really need advice about my relationship.l pease!!!!!!?
Are you really that bad of a speller? You seem intelligent, are you just trying to be ';street';? I'm so distracted, I've forgotten how I wanted to answer. Sorry, I'll get back to you...
nice slang/ anyway its hard for him to be affectionate over the phone its also impossible to have a relationship based on the computer and telephone. I would suggest you hang out together before making a decision.
I'm not sure I fully understand, but I think this is not the right guy for you.
grow up