I need advice with a relationship problem.?

so try not to laugh and please try to understand.





i've been dating this girl for some time (about a year now) and I feel like she's the one. I love her dearly. here's the problem (i've been contemplating asking this at all) we've only had sex 3 times in the year we've been dating. I know she loves me but here's the issue. see i'm kinda ..big down there and she's pettite and can't take it all. the first time we had sex we were gentle and she did fine. however, the second and then third-we couldn't get far..oral sex IS TOTALLY OUT OF THE QUESTION because i'm (as i said well endowed) and she doesn't quite hit the spot to make me ';release my love';. to be honest i'm tired of jerking off to finish the job. what I want from her is that deep penetrating love-you know what i mean? the kind of love making that almost leave us attached like dogs. I love this girl but i feel like I might have to move on. should I move on ladies? I don't know what to think.I need advice with a relationship problem.?
You sound like a really nice guy. Im sorry you are having this problem. It's not an easy one to answer that's for sure. Yes sex is very important in a relationship and it has been the reason for many breakups. And poor thing, she can't help it that it hurts. I know what you mean about wanting that deep penetrating love. I guess being with her for now is all good but you know if you stay with her and yall are still having this problem, someone is bound to cheat to make up for what they are not getting at home. And bad sex can make you unhappy anyway. I would rethink about being in a long term relationship with her but its sad that it would have to come to that. I don't think there is anything a doctor can do but you have to remember this......we women are capable of having 9 lb babies ok...lol I think before you break up with her, try practicing with her so she will get used to you. Take it slow and allow her vagina to stretch a bit. Keep trying a little longer. That's my final opinion on it. :) Like Nels said, try different positions too.I need advice with a relationship problem.?
damn that's some ******* up ****.
Love is not something you can replace and if you really loved this girl you wouldnt consider leaving her just because of the sex


Yes i can understand that this can be a problem


My advice would be to take it slow only a few inches at a time and use some lubrication when you feel it gets dry use some more this helps


She will eventually gets wider down there as the times you have sex increases


Remember that a girl can get wider down there after all a little baby's head have to come out there one day
Men obviously come in a wide variety of sizes. Women do too, but it can't be seen. For some reason your fiance is having problems, probably due to your girth. If you allow her to be on top, she may be able to relax and go slow enough to adjust to your size. If she can't adjust, you should probably stay away from straight intercourse. It doesn't make for much of a married life. You'll have to decide if it is worth it.





Another problem you may run into is hitting her cervix in such a way that it is uncomfortable/painful. This is caused by length and position. This can be remedied by changing to positions in which it is hard to go too deep. An example is a missionary variation with her legs on the inside of yours. (It's awkward to get into, but gives a lot of clitoral stimulation, which is very good.)





From experience i know that large size is a mixed blessing. Most women are VERY appreciative of size, but it is hard to get sympathy when it becomes a problem.