I am a 23 year old bisexual/lesbian coming out after breaking off a heterosexual relationship. I need advice!

I am so confused. I have always dated men and enjoyed attention from men but have always disliked sex with men after the first night. I find girls more attractive (especially the cute emo lesbians) and I have had sexual contact with females and have had emotional relationships with girls, but never mixed the two. I don't know what to do or who to go to or how to tell if I'm a lesbian, a bisexual, whatever... I guess the label doesn't make a difference, but this is a scary transition for me and I would like some advise/support for others who have gone through this coming out process. Please help!I am a 23 year old bisexual/lesbian coming out after breaking off a heterosexual relationship. I need advice!
Go to psychologist or read Koran to guide you to the straight way and give you peace.I'm just advising as you want.I am a 23 year old bisexual/lesbian coming out after breaking off a heterosexual relationship. I need advice!
Well, I don't believe in labels myself unless absolutely necessary. I think that you can be attracted to both genders in the same emotional and physical way. I say drop the labeling and just follow your heart. If it leads you to a woman than go for it, but if it leads you to a man than go that way. It's however you feel. I don't feel a need to discuss with people my sexuality. If I am dating a woman and they ask then I will tell and vice versa if it were a man. But, for the most part it is nothing that you should feel pressured to experience a coming out process with others.





Good Luck! Follow your heart and spirit, and always trust both.
Hi,


Maybe what you really want is to have an emotional relationship with men %26amp; a sexual relationship with girls...


Anyway one thing is for sure, time will sort this out, I'm sure you will experiment to figure yourself out.
I think you are bisexual.. you don't need to tell somebody unless you want to have something serious with someone..
i dont know what to say but good luck


hope everything turns out good for you :)
I understand right where you're at with the whole bisexual vs. lesbian thing. I used to consider myself bisexual. Actually I went by that label for eight years. Then I really started to think about it and the more I thought about it the more I realized that yeah, I can point out a hot guy but that doesn't mean that I personally wanted a sexual relationship with him. That's when I figured out that I'm a lesbian and one of the big ways (I think) of being able to tell which camp ya fall under. If you don't want sexual relationships with men, then I'd say you're probably a lesbian.