I really need advice on this relationship....?

Hi could really use some advice… I’m not sure if I am bisexual or lesbian, I just know I’ve had relationships both with men and woman, but the most intense ones have been with women. Right now I got involved with a really close friend, but she’s just going to turn 17 and I’m 31. That’s my first problem, the big age difference, we don’t care, but I’m sure other people would think it’s sick or something.





I never told my family any of this, but yesterday my mom asked me if I was a lesbian, and if I had a relationship with this “friend” and I just couldn’t deny it to her face. I’m not sure how she’ll handle everything, since I’ve always been her “perfect daughter”.





Now my other problem is, I don’t live in the US, my girlfriend does, and the whole long distance thing is really hard too. People where I live are a lot more close minded than in the US. You don’t usually see girls together, and it’s definitely not socially accepted at all. Any advice would be really appreciated.I really need advice on this relationship....?
ur mum maybe already knows that u r a lesbian but maybe she just wants u to admit it to her.... u should sit down calmly n talk to her tel her exactly how u feel.... if age doesn't matter to the both of then its done already.... a relationship only happens betweem two person other people's opinion doesn't matter.... like me i m a butch but i dun care... no matter how people look at u it doesn't matter.... wat matters most is how u look at urself n wat ur gf thinks... bout the distance u should organize who should take turns in visiting each other maybe once a month... my gf n me live in two different countries but we can still stay loving.... try to talk on the phone more often or even going on9, exchanging pics... it'll be even better if u have a webcam... trust me n believe in urself n ur gf... it'll workout....I really need advice on this relationship....?
you know what it doesn't matter what other people think. If you are happy and she is happy this is all that matters. It sounds like your mom already knows so just sit down and talk to her I am sure she will understand, and about the long distance. It hardly ever works out unless you move to america or she moves to your country
You are 31 years of age,this mean you already have a 15 years sex skills and that enough for you to know your self if you are lesbian or not ,any way from your mom question means she doubt with your sexual desire ,but if you feel that you get more pleasure in doing female sex no problem other wise visit your doc
Well it up to you and nobody should tell you what to do with ur life. but want until she turns 18 and than nobody will have nothing to say. Have fun and work it out.