Thursday, July 29, 2010

Honest advice please. I dont have as much time to spend with my boyfriend! Will that weaken our relationship?

In a few weeks im going to be starting college again and starting a new job. Before this, I didnt have a job and wasnt in school (for the summer). We still live together, Im just afraid we're going to become more distant because of my new schedule. He also works full time. Overnight, day shifts, his schedule is all over the place. So will me being more busy strengthen or weaken the relationship? Please helpHonest advice please. I dont have as much time to spend with my boyfriend! Will that weaken our relationship?
A good relationship always needs time together, thats the fundamental. So logically the answer to your question is Ye, it may weaken.Honest advice please. I dont have as much time to spend with my boyfriend! Will that weaken our relationship?
It really depends on the relationship. I personally think things like this situation would strengthen it because you are that more excited about seeing each other. And you also have more chances to do small romantic things for each other, like leave a cute note before you go to work, etc...Hope that helped!
It will weaken the relationship so you better make the time you have together real quality time. This is a very precarious stage of life when people switch partners and the deck gets reshuffled many times. Be careful and stay connected if you want to keep him.
Hey, I only see my girlfriend when im on vacation and when i have enough money to buy a ticket. I am 22 and she is 23 so we both know what we want and it doesn't affect us because we are making plans for the future. Our relationship is very healthy though. We have been together for a little over four years now =]. We just make sure we talk a lot on the phone and keep constant contact. Im sure you will be fine, if its meant to be, its meant to be
Realtionships are the ups and downs. You guys will prbably be frustrated/irritated from work/school. You might even vent on each other, but never forget what you're really angry about and never forget to take a step back. It'll be tough, but it'll work out if you're both willing.
If you really love eachother than don't worry, if you do have any worry's that your not spending enough time together just let him know, and maybe you can plan a nice night together, when your both free.
I wouldn't like to be the one to say it but i think with full time work and careers, relationships will suffer and in the end if not careful you could lose each other.
u have to make sure u text,call,chat,email on a regular basis, like almost everyday. make him a part of watevers going on in ur life. and dont assume that he knows that u care,show him that u care.
of course it would weaken the relationship..... good luck,, yall need keep the relationship stronger...
depends on how much you love each other!

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