I need advice with my relationship?!?!?

my parents are separated..they live in two different cities that are 6 miles apart. my girlfriend lives in the same city as my father...my father lives with my godparents but my girlfriend thinks that he lives in his own home...I told her that because i was really embarrased about what was going on with my parents..the separation and all...we've been going out for 2 months (Im 17 and she's 18)...and my parents have been separated for like 4 months...





how should i tell my girlfriend the truth about my dads situation?? What should I say....how should I say it???I need advice with my relationship?!?!?
Tell her just like you did right here. You lied because you were embarrassed.I need advice with my relationship?!?!?
Tell her the truth, straight up. At her age, she will understand.


Be honest with her, that's the best thing to do.
There's nothing wrong about telling the truth about your dad's situation. If he divorced your mom 4 months ago, sometimes it takes a little while to get back on your feet. I know you probably don't get that right now but believe me life isn't always what you thought it would be. You have no reason to be ashamed of anything. Just tell her what happened and if she's the person you think she is, then she will understand, besides she's not going out with him, she's going out with you...


good luck
Just be honest and open with your girlfriend. Its not your marriage that broke up, parents are people too. You should not be embarrased and should support each parent although you do not agree with the situation. You do not know what your future holds on down the line... so do not judge your parents for what has happened.
Ther eis nothing wrong with your dad living with your god parents.


Just tell her flat out that you need to tell her something about your dad and that and tell her that your dad lives with your godparents at the moment.


I'm sure she will be fine with it there is nothing wrong with it.


I hope everything works out :)
where your parents live and what they do has nothing to do with you.


be honest with your girlfriend and tell her the truth...also let her know why you didn't tell her in the first place.


if she really likes you, it doesn't matter what your parents do. what will matter though is that you lied to her.


come clean...if you're together for sometime, she will eventually find out.
I think that you just need to have a sit down conversation and come clean...take your time with it but be honest. Just let her know that you were uncomfortable with telling her the truth but now that you two have grown closer to each other you want to be honest about the entire situation. Another thing is you shouldn't be embarrassed it's not like the old days when couples had to stay together when they hated each other...I am sure your parents are happier now and that is something to look forward to.... just being happy!
just tell her the truth: that you were embarassed and hope she's okay with it, and if she really loves you it wont matter.
First of all, you shouldn't be ashamed of your parent's divorce. It happens in about half of the marriages these days. Second, lying is very immature and unless you come clean soon, you will get caught.





You can start by telling the girl you really wanted her to like you for who you are and that you were not completely honest about your family. Then tell her the truth. For all you know, she may be in the same situation. If she dumps you, she doesn't deserve you.
DUDE!!!!!????





WTF





You've got to be upfront with her about this or when you do tell her she'll ask: ';why did you lie to me'; the sooner you be honest,


the better off you are.
Honesty works. There's no reason to be embarrassed. Just say, ';Baby, I'm sorry- I want to tel you something. I lied to you about my dad because I was embarrassed, but now that our relationship is becoming more serious, I want to come clean and tell you the truth about what's going on, because I'm sure you'll understand and support me. My parents separated about 4 months ago, and my dad actually lives with my godparents because %26lt;insert reason here%26gt;. I'm sorry I lied to you, and I want you to know that it won't happen again.';





Done. Not a big deal. Next!