I need some advice on my relationship/marriage?

I'm very confused about what's going on in my life lately. When I was 18 I got pregnant with some one that parents did not like since day one and still don't like him, and yes we did have a lot of problems. I'm older now and I have got married to another guy and has been good to me and I had two kids to him and he helped me raise my first, but the thing is that I left him about 7 months ago for the first guy that I was with and now my family will not talk to me anymore. I cry almost everyday. My husband wants me to come back and be a family again, and get help together. What should I do. Please helpI need some advice on my relationship/marriage?
Perhaps you should not have left your husband for the other guy but spent some time on your own to really work out your feelings before choosing who you want to be with. It seems as though your husband loves you dearly and is willing to forgive you. You should spend some time on your own, it would be the most fair thing to do for all concerned. Mostly you.I need some advice on my relationship/marriage?
You have to be with the one you love. Obviously this first guy was the true love of your life. You can't be with someone to please your parents - it wouldn't work in the long run and your unhappiness would rub off on the children. Unfortunately you have to be selfish and think of yourself and your children - as long as they are happy as well. It's sad that you couldn't love your husband as you should of but that's life I;m afraid. Your family should stand by you even if they are sad about it. They should be happy that you are happy.
nobody can decide for you what to do.Just remember,before making such huge decisions like getting married,having babies, separating etc. you have to think about consequences and especially how its going to benefit your kids.another advice would be - you not suppose to live to make your parents happy,live your life and be responsible for happiness of your own family, especially your children.
whats the point of crying?? you have hurt your family and your husband by going back to a guy who didnt accept you then


your parents arent talking to you for the right reasons


own up girl if it is love you are following then the future or your kids is at stake ............. go get a happy family with the man who helped you to raise your kid and give your other two kids a father
the very good thing is that ur husband wants u back even when u left him for your boyfren.it means he still loves u so much.and u dont forget he helps u truly in raising ur first kid.


so my advice is this that u plz dnt spoil ur life for ur bf who never cares for u and left u when u need him most. its better to go to ur husband and lead a happy life with ur kids n forgot every moment which makes u feel guilty. give ur best to ur husband and ur kids.
it is understandable why family is upset with you, but you need to calm down and think clearly. Think of your children, go back to your husband who seems like a good guy and be a family. Rest of the family will learn to forgive you, but you need to earn their trust 1st.
We can't always make our family happy.So if they really do care about you,they will learn to accept the decision you have made and not judge you. I always tell my friends to do what makes you happy.We can't live for our families. We have to live for ourselves.GOOD LUCK
You have to listen to your heart. Do you think you would regret not going back? May be you just wondered how it could have been and you want to find out. Write a list of the good and the bad from both men and be honest then make you decision.
dear u ve made abig mistake . So dont worry I belive a mity God who is crucified for every one . Take a step %26amp; go back to ur husband. And make alife happy once again. And also try to walk with Great God. He has satisfaction in all lifes matters








ok take care


God wilBless u always


eric
Husband is thousand times more acceptable than a boyfriend. More over two kids must draw their mother by greater force than a single ones father (old guy).
Calm down. If this guy really makes you happy, I think you should go back to him. Your family will understand eventually when they see how happy you are with him.
I don't know but people are not roller coasters you can step on and off of, You truly need to understand what committment is all about or simply leave people alone so you don't hurt them
u need 2 b sincere/consistant with one of them,give importance to ur children than yours.
follow ur heart