I need some advice for my relationship..?

So my gf does drugs and likes to party. And its not like she does drugs all the time but the fact is she tried them..lately we have been arguin a lot for no reason really at all..I feel like she not giving me the attwntion I need and its all about her like if she just takes me for granted..I been with her 7 months now but we known eachother since highschool..and I thought I loved her but I'm starting to think I don't..I like her a whole lot but idk about love.. So I'm with her like everyday almost when she's not in school or at work..but to her everything is about having fun to her and partying and doing drugs here and there..and I'm almost getting caught up in it and I don't want to our relationship to be like this and I don't wanna leave her..she's a very smart and the most beautiful girl I have ever met..but she needs guidance..she comes from a wealthy family so she's spoiled and selfish..and I tried breaking up wit her and telling her how I feel but I know she doesn't want that..I have helped her and she's came along way from the way she was before. And I don't really wanna leave her but I don't know what's best right now...I need help???I need some advice for my relationship..?
dump her ***I need some advice for my relationship..?
tell her you wanna take a break take some time to think put everything in retrospective








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ither dont let it get to you or talk to her about it, if shes not willing to comprimisise...seriously maybe shes not worth it...
talk to her and tell her that u do not want to leave her but she have to cut back on the drugs and do there thing
she's a drug addict


deal with it


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Okay first of all man I think it's really noble that you're helping her. Nothing can throw a person off track from recovery then a sad sad break up. You're a great guy. Girl would kill for your commitment. Too bad there aren't a lof of men like us. okay so i would tell you that i really dont think you should stay in it because you want to help her. You can help her as a friend. You aren't happy in the relationship. You really have no reason to stick in it. If it isn't good with you then what's the point? Be happy man. Dont sacrifice your happyness for others. you've done enough. She does sound really beautiful and worth it so it's really up to you... leave her and get another girl and start a health relationship OR stick with her help her recover and you might learn to love her again. It's really up to you.


Sorry it was long:))





GOOD LUCK!!!
Hang in there. I like the part that she is 'smart'. Just don't do the drugs yourself. Don't fight for no stupid reasons. She's not perfect but sounds like she has a lot going for her. And these bad habits can be changed. Be tough and hang tough and see where it goes. Give her more time. Good luck.





Update: I disagree with most of the posters here who tell you to dump her. You've known her for a long time. Don't abandon her. I think this is just a phase she's going through as both of you are quite young. I think she'll grow out of it and when she does, she will be one hell of a woman for you. Also, 7 months is not a long time. Give her a couple of years and you'll be such an important part of her life that she wouldn't be able to let go. IOW, you'll have a lot more say and influence, the longer you stay with her. Good luck.

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