I need help and advice on my relationship with my gf?

Im 17 and she is 20 we have done stuff already like sex ect. and we have been together 3 weks ish the problem is that i am bouncy , out going and chatty and loud but she is quite , shy and likes to keep her self to her self and we are at college together we do animal care .... Today when i came into college i saw her and i said hi and went to put my arms round her and she tryed to walk away so i kept hold of her trying to pull her back to me but i just let her go and stood next to my m8


and when we were cleaning out rabbits it was just me and her and asked her for a kiss n she said no ...... and when we got outside when we finished it was pooring with rain and i used my coat as cover and i asked her to come next to me and she said no u keep dry n when her cab came she said '; oh my cab is here bye '; and she looked at me and i said '; what no hug or kiss'; n she hugged me n kissed me n leftI need help and advice on my relationship with my gf?
If she's affectionate in private then maybe she's just overly shy and would prefer for you to not to be all over her in front of other people. If she's not fine with you in private then maybe she has gone off you and doesn't know how to tell you.I need help and advice on my relationship with my gf?
you've only been together 3 weeks, and you've had sex etc.


she might things are going too fast


or she might be worried things are too fast for you seeing as you're younger.


talk to her, explain you're confused by what she's doing.
lol..'cleaning our rabbits'


dats funny


she dont like yooouu !
It doesn't matter she's just shy she will eventually start to get closer to you as soon as you kinda ignore her!!! i mean not in the bad way! but yeah just wait!!





Khuz.x
I think she just sounds really really shy and coy. Maybe you should try taking a step back, rather than showing physical affection whilst your out, take her out for dinner and show her that you really care for her in other ways too. I don't think it shows like she wants to end the relationship, but it might be an idea to take her out for dates. This would give her time to impress you, like dressing up nicely, etc. If she had time to do this then it puts the ball in her court, she can feel like she is seducing you and play the femme fatale rather than the shy one. Hugging and kissing whilst working with animals isnt exactly the most romantic thing, so try playing the role of mr. romantic to show that you are mature and loving.
The reason is simple. She is reviewing the situation as you are less by three years than her. Can it be good going for future? That is the question she has in her mind. But while departing in the cab she did show respect and love to you. Rain was driving her from you and does not want to make it that public your affair when she does not feel certain about the future of the relationship.


Of course she too is a collegian and her intelligence shall play an important part in analysing things around her. Allow her time. Don't be in a hurry to mess up
either something is bugging her about you and her? maybe she's upset about something. or its possible she could be wanting to end it. I think you should just casually talk to her but not tonight if it happened today, i think you should let it cool off and tonight wait and see if she texts you or rings you or whatever you guys do. If you see her tomorrow talk to her but take her to one side and sit down maybe on a bench so you dont have to look at each other which would make it easier to just tell you whats going on! dont be too clingy n keep asking whats wrong though! hope it turns out well :)