Sunday, July 25, 2010

Can anyone give me advice on a relationship dilemma?

Ok, I have been going out with a girl for around a year and a half now. She incredibly loyal, but can be considered to be fairly clingy. For example, she tends to get protective when I hang around with my female friends. Also I think she rather dislikes my best friend (female) for the aforementioned reasons. These kind of issues have caused arguments on several occasions, usually ending with no resolution or with her resolving to be less clingy in future (although this never changes).


The matter is complicated by the fact I think I am still in love with my previous ex-girlfriend, who I know regretted dumping me afterwards. We have become close friends, and I have come to start confiding more in her than my girlfriend. I know I care deeply for my girlfriend, but the stress caused by her insecurity is getting hard to cope with.





Basically, I would love any opinions on what people think is the best course of action, I may still love my gf, but is it worth the strain? Or is the thing for my ex nothing?





All words of advice are much appreciated :-)Can anyone give me advice on a relationship dilemma?
well if you have more things to say about your ex then tell your current girlfriend to stop being so defensive or else it will never work so then you can ask out your ex...again. Since you still have feelings for your current you should probably wait and see how things go another month at the most, but at the end of the day, its completely up to you who you wanna be withCan anyone give me advice on a relationship dilemma?
I would say that you should talk it over with your girlfriend. If she is just so unwilling to drop the jealousy then it may not be worth your time. And from experience if you are having feelings for another person while in a relationship you should do some serious thinking. There is a posibility that you could get back with your ex and reconsile whatever made you two break up in the first place. Just make sure you can live with whatever decision you make. Best of luck hun!
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