If you want to start a relationship with him, I would suggest first meeting him in a public place with a friend you trust. You will probably be able to tell once you spend some time together if it's worth pursuing. Sometimes people act differently on the Internet so don't be surprised if your Prince Charming turns out to be a dud but who knows he may be a great guy too. I used to live with a guy I met on the Internet and he was great when I talked to him online but when we moved in together, things changed. While I think it's better to meet someone in real life, there are times when I guess it can work out. All I can say is to meet him. Every circumstance is different. Good luck and be careful!I need some advice on a relationship that started on the internet.?
be very very careful. people that hook up on the internet 80% gets raped. so if you really trust him go for it. but be sure to bring a friend!
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It really determines you age, I'm not sure how old you are so my suggestion would be that you should meet him but do it with a friend in a public place like a mall. You don't really know this guy until you meet him face to face..
good question ,
i have had Meany long term friendships on the net and only met in person a small group all at once and was a good experience .Don't think you can fall in love in a month in chat tho .
I don't know your age so wouldn't want to give bad advice But i will say if you decide to meet ,make it in a very public place for lunch .
Never leave yourself alone in a position that can be dangerous !!!!
I'm a guy and shouldn't say this ,but we can be very convincing ,be careful !!!
One thing a woman has going for herself is that gult feeling, go with that. But of course be safe and cautions. Listen to your enter voice.
you should meet him but bring a friend with u and meet him in apublic place like a mall. but go for it
I did internet date a bit and met a few guys off the internet. None of them misled me in any way, I felt they were all honest. I met my current husband on the internet and he too honestly represented himself. I think if a guy is lying or misleading you on the internet, you might be able to tell because he may go a long time without calling you, or he won't be too eager to give his number to you, or he is busy and he fits you in when he can...things that can tip you off he has a girlfriend or wife. But, if he seems on the up and up, I think it would be great for you to meet him. Time proves everything, and if he is sincere, honest and not attached, you will find this out. And, let's face it, you can e-mail and talk on the phone all you want, but it only goes so far. If you want a relationship, you have to meet the person. So, find a spot where there will be other people, you can plant a friend nearby, he doesn't have to know someone is there keeping an eye on things, and once you meet him and talk to him in person, you will be able to see his sincerity and whether there are any 'spark's there. It is a bit unnerving to meet someone for the first time, it is like a blind date!, but if you use common sense, it is a great way to meet someone. I know I could never have met my husband any other way, and it really worked out great for us. Best of luck!!
I met a boy on the internet when I was twelve. I met him through his brother because we were casually flirting. We were good friends and really liked each other's personalities, but we didn't know each other for who we -really- were no matter how hard we tried to explain ourselves. After I turned 17, I finally met him. I think I fell head over heels for him. We saw eachother multiple times, but it was hard since he lived in MA and I lived in WV.
His family disapproved of us, I was experienced and he was not. We eventually did sleep together and things went awry from there. He went out a lot and I never knew where he went, I was really insecure because I couldn't be around him. It was heartbreaking and frustrating. We finally parted when I was 19. He said he was 'too busy' with college. I found someone else and he threw a fit about it, come to find out later he was doing his best friend's girlfriend and she told him to get lost eventually.
It's not impossible but there is SO much strain, arguing, and hardship. It's only going to work out if you're -both- honest and want it to work. Eventually, one of you is going to have to move or it's going to fall apart. Distance is very painful.
LOL...I am sooo going through the same thing!!! I really want to meet the guy I have been talking to for the last month and planned on meeting him until things on my part screwed up. I think you have to take the chance. This could be the love of your life!!! Just take extra precautions for a while. Meet in a neutral location, make sure you have proof of his name address and all that kind of stuff before you meet and give it to someone you trust...just in case. In your case I hope that he has been honest with you on everything! Internet dating is sooo much different than real life dating. This is my first time talking to a guy on the internet and I am scared to death that he isn't who he said he is. LOL what's the name of your guy?? Just want to make sure we aren't talking to the same guy. lol!!!
i really can't have a say , because it your choice , people say It bad to meet people from the Internet , that is true , if u are , than only hope nothing go bad , since u feel nervous , i think it a sign that telling u something , don't force yourself to do something that going to effect u, because of a guy, i sure u can find a guy that not one computer that an love u. and when a he say these stuff to u , it mean sex. so be wise and beware
I also am in the same boat right now and I am very scared about the meetting thing so I am waiting and I would be very careful when I do meet him I am not going to my apartment I am meeting in an open area just be very careful I beg you and keep a friend in formed when I go to meet this guy my friend is going to know everything going on and I am going to be texting her and so I would just cover your tracts and be careful have fun I met someone on line and I am in love with him and dont know if its going to last but I am going to enjoy it while I can
I have two boyfriends that I met on the net. One lives near me and the other further away (2 hours). The are both lovely and I see them both. Until I make my decision thats the way it will stay. I don't know about the one that lives away from my area... we have been together at my place for weekends and I adore him... but I haven't been to his place yet. It just hasn't worked out. The one who lives near me, well I go to his, he doesn't come to mine. I enjoy them both for very different reasons. I think you have to be cautious and accommodating at the same time with internet people because you meet on such a medium. It can work and I have lots of friends that have good relationships like this. But it may take longer and extra caution. Thats why I haven't decided yet. Its my prerogative at this stage to be with both.
my first answer would be stay away...lol ....but if you really care for him ...make sure you meet him in a public place....and brings friends along
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