I need advice on a relationship im in.?

Im involved with a married man. so I guess im his mistress. We love one another but our age difference is a big problem and him being married is apparently a big problem. He says he wants to be with me but im not sure what to do.I need advice on a relationship im in.?
been there,,, If he does not plan on leaving his wife, he does not want you... He does like you and it is a rush being with you, but that is all it will be. He is only telling you he wants to be with you to keep you going,, the sex is probably great and better than home, but what do you do? He has a commitment,, what about any kids?





You may love each other, but it is not true love,, unless he leaves her for you... then you have to think if he is cheating on his wife with you,,, wont he cheat (if he is not already) on you with another...





Based on my experience,,, leave, until he gets a divorce,, then see if he comes calling you...





As for the age,,, are you younger or older? if younger, then you are the trophy, little hottie..... if you are older, then you are the great experience....





I have been on both sides of the road, (older and younger)... forget about him... move onI need advice on a relationship im in.?
First of all you need to take a step back and really look at the situation and yourself. I understand that there seem to be a shortage of good men out there and it doesn't seem like he's one either. You need to drop this guy and take some time to focus on yourself and then find someone who is single like yourself. It won't be easy but in the long run, it would be worth it. Besides how would you feel if you were the wife and she was the mistress? I think that he is only telling you that he wants to be with you to prolong his joy of having his cake and eating it too. It is time that you put his sorry behind on a diet(but in a nice, respectful way). And be patient--someone will eventually come along whom you will be able to call your own, instead of having to share. And pray for forgiveness and guidance, keep the faith and believe--patience.
Its just a booty call!! enjoy while you can! it will not last. too much to lose if you guys end up together. just think of what everyone around will think, friends, family, co workers. going public will change everything. i think you guys like the idea of sneaking around! enjoy!